Strawberry Letter

Hello Steve and Shirley. I'm a 43 year old female and I've always dated older men. Well about eight months ago I started dating a 36 year old man and after seven months of dating we decided to be intimate. Now here's the problem I guess since he's younger than me he wants to have sex or make love three to four times a night seven days a week. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hello Steve and Shirley. I just found out that my husband has a two year old child with his ex-wife. When I confronted him about the child he told me it wasn't his child. It was a tube baby. He says she is a product of IVF and that he has documentation to prove it. When I ask him why with his ex wife he just said she asked him to donate his sperm and that she was his first wife and never been with no other man but him so he agreed. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I date both single men and married men. I find nothing wrong dating them. Most of them need love too. The man that’s married made the agreement with someone else not me. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hello Steve Shirley Tommy and Carla. I'm a 30 year old woman who recently left my children's father. I left because it seems as though we don't want the same things in life. Let's start by saying in the beginning of the relationship things were great, as you know the beginning is always the best. He asked me to move in with him so that we can save money and get a house together. Mind you I was fine living alone with my 2 year old daughter at the time. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Steven Shirley I'm a divorced mother of twins that runs a successful business. Due to the fact that my company requires a lot of my time. I spend all of my free time with my twin boys both my sons participate in team sports and I am at all games and practices as well as very active in their school and educational process. This leaves no time for a real relationship right now. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Good morning Stephen Shirley. I am here in Vegas alone and there is something weighing on my heart. So I decided to write. I've been talking to a man for about a month. I really like this guy and we connected immediately. I am 53 and he is 47. Getting to know us face has turned up some issues but since they won't harm or hurt me I can compromise. The thing that brought us to a halt is his refusal to be tested for HIV. He says he never has and never will. How are some of us still stuck on stupid and afraid of being tested? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve Shirley and Tommy. I'm a wife of 14 years I've been with my husband for 18 years. We were together as young teenagers. He doesn't know that I've been seeing someone else since before we got married. I love this other man simply for the man that he is. When we're together, his focus is 100 percent on me. He has limitless sex drive and pleases me every time. About a year ago I began a sexual relationship with another man who I care very much for. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Good morning Uncle Steve and Shirley. First let me say that I am addressing you as Uncle Steve because you are indeed an uncle to me. I don't have many men in my family and the ones I do have, I wouldn't dare ask them anything because all of their situations are jacked up. Background I've been lied to, put 2nd and not chosen so many times. Never fought for what I wanted or even spoke up about how I really felt. Always knew my worth but never live up to it. I finally made a choice not to settle for good enough.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I really don't know what to do. I need a man's perspective on this issue. I'm 34 and I've been happily married for almost five years. We have no children my husband and I are very much in love. Most of our friends idolize our relationship. People say we look like we're in love. The problem is that he is not satisfied with me sexually. We do it four to six times a week all the time. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hello Steve and Shirley I'm a 23 year old female. I recently graduated from college. Currently I'm working for the state of Arkansas and attending school full time to receive my master's. I'm a person that loves my family no matter what. However lately there's some things within my family that have hit me hard. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Good morning everybody. I love this radio station and I've listened to you guys every morning. OK here's my story. I'm a 28 year old black female I'm a wife of six years and a mother of two lovely girls. I love my husband and my family and I truly know that he is my best friend. Well here goes, my husband is nine years my senior. That's not the problem because I love older men. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been having an affair with a married man and I am deeply in love with him. His brother has been allowing us to visit his apartment, or should I say our “Love Nest” to see each other. My man gives his brother $100 and the brother takes off for about an hour or so, leaving us alone in the apartment. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve Harvey and Shirley. Currently I am separated and over 40 can't have any children. Main reason for my divorce anyway. I met a man Mr. Man who was also separated and we became very close. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hello Shirley Steve and Tommy let me start by saying that I have been married for six years without a problem. At least this is what I thought in parentheses. My wife and I along with her two children attended her best friend's wedding. I noticed that my wife introduced me to everyone but this one guy. But she did state that he used to work with her. As the wedding went on, I saw the guy whisper to my wife among friends. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hi Steve I want your advice. My boyfriend and I have a relationship for six years. He started cheating on me three years ago. He had a child with that girl and now he's cheating again. His mother stopped talking to me because she thought I was trying to take her son from her. I wrote him a letter a while back telling him that I need him to be a man that I can rely on the man that I need to head our household and the only way that can happen is if you stop allowing his mother to control him and our relationship as well. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve I've been married 20 plus years and have two almost adult kids. I've been faithful devoted trying to hold things together for my family. I didn't want them to have to live a lifestyle I would have had to give them had I left my husband Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Stressed wife and I both workaholics, he is a good provider and I've always served him because I believe my man should never have a reason to have his needs met any place outside of me. Well the past two years have been challenging due to my layoff from a nonprofit community arts job and my husband having surgery on his wrist and most recently a hernia operation. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Good morning Steve and family I'm a 30 year old female with no kids a great job and do pretty well for myself. I'm engaged to a great man who proposed to me on Valentine's Day of this year. He has two kids with someone else and takes very good care of his children which is just one of the things I respect about him. Here's my question to you. Does size really matter? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve I met a gentleman about three months ago and we have been enjoying a platonic friendship. Lately it's become apparent that we are feeling each other on a deeper level and I have a strong physical attraction to each other. The other day during a discussion about herbal supplements versus prescription drugs he revealed that he has no choice but to take prescription drugs because he is HIV positive. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hello all I would like to ask your advice about my sister. I am 37 years old and I'm going through a divorce. My husband and I separated because he hit me. That was the second time he had done that and my father didn't raise no fool. I left him and filed a charge against him. My older sister was at the house and witnessed my husband hit me. Now during the time before we went to court my husband was frequently visiting my sister. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.