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We've been told nice guys finish last, but we're debunking this myth as we chat with return guest Vince Xu about how being the nice guy actually is what got him the girl. We discuss how we need to reframe "the nice guy" and "fboy" tropes, ways that good guys can make their intentions known in a way that builds chemistry, and how as women dating men we can look at the overall character of the person we're dating.Follow Vince @vincexu and check out 'Fuckboy Island"Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Related Episodes:The One Who Got Away w/ Vince Xu and Yurika YonedaHow to Fail At Being A F*ckboy w/ Kane HollowayInside The Psyche of a F*ckboy w/ Martin MorrowThis episode is sponsored by:Last

Could the problem be your city? Is it worth moving for better dating prospects? We're diving into it all as we chat about why (or why not) your location is the problem. We discuss how to evaluate whether or not a move would e good for you, why everyone thinks their city is the worst place to date, and how you can take advantage of your current city even if you think the dating pool has dried up.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comJoin our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today: https://hinge.co/Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://ar

We're trying something new! Welcome to the first installment of “Quickies” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie will dive into the Single Scale: what it is, where you land on it and how it may be impacting finding an actual partner who is the real deal.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ This episode is sponsored by:Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today: https://hinge.co/Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts Registration closes for this cohort on Sunday 4/14!Our Sponsors:* Check out Armoire and u

Does dating feel like you’re chasing a “happily ever after” that always seems out of reach? We're chatting with dating coach Damona Hoffman about how to break free from the dating myths that keep you stuck on an outdated vision of a relationship that probably isn't even what you want anyways! We discuss why soulmates don't exist, the four pillars of strong relationships, and how you can rewrite the ending to your own love story.Follow Damona @damonahoffman, listen to Dates & Mates, and get her book 'F the Fairy Tale' wherever books are sold.Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Related Episodes:Why You're Choosing The Wrong Partners w/ Psychotherapist Marc SholesDeeper Dating w/ Ken PageThis episod

Ever been on a date when your date won't stop talking? We're back with a new season of brunch talks as we go into how to know if it's first date jitters or narcissistic tendencies. We're discussing ways to insert yourself / redirect the conversation, how to do your own talking-too-much gut check, and when to give the date another try versus cut bait. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comJoin our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today: https://hinge.co/Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/Flure

We're back with Season 18 here to answer an existential question we've had after doing this podcast now for 8 years: do you need to be good at dating? When we first started the pod, the answer was an obvious yes....until we dug in further. Join us as we discuss why dating culture isn't helping us get into relationships, how to start dating differently, and ways you can start forming more connections in your dating life TODAY!Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Related Episodes:Breaking up with Bad Dating Habits - Yue interviews JulieBreaking up with Bad Dating Habits - Julie interviews YueSaving Modern Dating w/ Ilana DunnThis episode is sponsored by:Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today: https://hin

So you've been dating someone for a little bit now...when is it time to DTR (define the relationship) and how do you broach the subject? In our last of the Best of Brunch talk series, we'll discuss the difference between exclusivity and a relationship, how to have a series of low pressure chats starting early on, and why the focus should actually NOT be on defining the relationship (but rather something else).Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comGot a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThis episode is sponsored by:Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today: https://hinge.co/Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/Dateable is part of the Frolic P

As that essential tool we love to hate, the question remains: are apps the problem or are you just using them wrong? We're diving into it all as we chat with Laura & Heather on their podcast Thirsty about how we can leverage dating apps to their highest power and (perhaps) find the love of a lifetime. We discuss how to make great connections that may go somewhere, why better dates may actually result from dating less, and ways to attract the matches you want. Follow Heather & Laura on Instagram @thirstythepodcast and check out their podcast 'Thirsty: The Podcast' wherever you get your podcasts.Make sure to subscribe as Season 18 starts next week!Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today: https://hinge.co

One of the worst feelings in dating is sending that text and only to be left on read 4 hours later....yup, you too? We're going back to our OG Brunch talk episode – the first one ever with a topic that continues to be top of mind. Join us as we discuss why we put so much weight on texting, how to get out of the anxiety cycle of waiting, and ways you can stop compulsively looking at your phone and live life!Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comGot a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThis episode is sponsored by:Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today: https://hinge.co/Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DATEABLE50OneSkin: Get 15% your first OneSkin purchase with the code DATEABLE at one

Whether you're newly single after a breakup or you're just trying to figure out how to navigate the day with someone new in your life – we got you. Valentine's Day (aka Singles Awareness Day) can bring up all sorts of feelings and concerns so we're answering your v-day questions in this special episode and re-airing an episode we did with 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose to inject some humor into the day. Remember, no matter your "status", love is all around you. Enjoy!Follow 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose on Instagram @2BlackGirls1Rose and check out their podcast ‘2 Black Girls, 1 Rose’ wherever you get your podcastsFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today: https://hinge.co/BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of

We're diving into another crowd favorite and incredibly common question we hear over and over again: should I go on that date if I'm not sure about them? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing knowing the limitations of dating apps vs. trusting your gut, how to set up a date for success before even going on it, and ways you can change your mindset about what a first date even means.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comGot a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThis episode is sponsored by:Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DATEABLE50OneSkin: Get 15% your first OneSkin purchase with the code DATEABLE at oneskin.coDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstandin

Single for V-day? We got you! Get ready for all the feels as we speak with Julia Mazur, ex-Tinder employee turned confidence coach, about what it's like to release the pressure of needing to be in a relationship and embrace being single for this season of life. We're discussing the ultimate masturdates, how to find a healthy relationship through valuing yourself, and why this time in your life is just prepping you for the great relationship bound to happen ahead! Follow Julia @pmdpod @jamazur and check out her podcast 'Pretty Much Done'Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Our 22-Day Dating App Challenge is now open until February 7th! Get your spot now: https://www.findingyourperson.com/appsThis episode is sponsored by:Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at htt

If you've ever been told you're being "too picky" or you have a fear of settling, this brunch talk is for you! We're re-airing one of our most popular episodes about the difference of being so particular that no one can meet your standards vs being smart to hold out for the right person. We're discussing why settling gets a bad rap, ways you may be settling without even realizing it, and how to gage against the standards that actually matter.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comGot a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardOur 22-Day Dating App Challenge is now open until February 7th! Get your spot now: https://www.findingyourperson.com/appsThis episode is sponsored by:Recess: Get 15% off Recess Mocktails now at takearecess.com/Dateable Factor: Get 50%

Despite over 70% of people being ghosted, it doesn't diminish how f%cking sh*tty it feels. We're breaking down how to stop getting ghosted (or at least stop letting it get to you) as we chat with Rory Uphold from Crimes of the Heart. We’re discussing our wildest ghosting stories, how to reframe rejection, and ways not give so much power to the ghosters out there.Follow Rory @icouldbeblonder and check out her podcast 'Crimes of the Heart'Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Our 22-Day Dating App Challenge is now open until February 7th! Get your spot now: https://www.findingyourperson.com/appsThis episode is sponsored by:Recess: Get 15% off Recess Mocktails now at takearecess.com/Dateable Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 o

Right person, wrong time? Or is it just not meant to be? Trust us, we've pondered this ourselves and we're reairing one of our most passionate discussions. This week we discuss how to timing plays into relationships, when to wait vs. move on, and whether it can actually be right person, wrong time or if it's total BS that's holding you back.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardOur 22-Day Dating App Challenge is now open until February 7th! Get your spot now: https://www.findingyourperson.com/appsThis episode is sponsored by:Recess: Get 15% off Recess Mocktails now at takearecess.com/Dateable Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DATEABLE50Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 fo

What if you could throw out all the rules and create your own Do-it-Yourself Vision of a relationship? We're talking about how to design your love life with one of our favorites, psychotherapist Ken Page, on his podcast Deeper Dating. We're discussing the visions of dating across ages, how you use your North Star when dating, and ways you can less attached to the outcome – but still intentional – on having the love life you desire.Follow Ken @deeperdating, listen to Deeper Dating Podcast, and learn more about Ken here: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardOur 22-Day Dating App Challenge is now open until February 7th! Get your spot now: https://www.findingyourperson.com/appsThis episode is sponsored by:Recess: Get 15% off Recess Mocktails now at takearecess.com/Dateable Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https:

Popular dating advice has told us: if they wanted to, they would. They'd move mountains to be with us and if they can't, then they just aren't that into it. We're re-airing one of our best brunch talks where we’re discuss when someone says they can't do something / they aren't ready and what this means for you, why this saying isn't always so black and white, and how to use this information to help propel you forward in your love life.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThis episode is sponsored by:Recess: Get 15% off Recess Mocktails now at takearecess.com/Dateable Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DATEABLE50Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your

From that post-great-date moment of bliss to the can't-get-out-of-bed heartbreak, we're diving into all the wonderful, problematic, and even humorous sides of dating as we chat with Dr. Alexandra Solomon on Reimagining Love. We discuss the rapidly changing dating culture, dig into our personal highs and lows, and tackle three sticky relationship situations – all which can help you reflect on your own dating life and epic quest for love.Follow Dr. Alexandra Solomon on Instagram @dr.alexandra.solomon. Check out her new book 'Love Every Day'Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Recess: Get 15% off Recess Mocktails now at takearecess.com/Dateable Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DAT

The age old question that never stops coming: how can I tell if the person I'm seeing is as invested in me as I am in them? For our best of brunch series, we're re-airing a crowd favorite episode about signs if someone is serious – or not. We're discussing why it's important to look beyond just the DTR talk and labels, how you can communicate what a relationship means to you even early on in dating, and ways you can get on the same page –or realize that this person will never commit the way you want them to. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Recess: Get 15% off Recess Mocktails now at takearecess.com/DateableFactor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://facto

From mind-numbing texting etiquette to turning situationships into real-deal love stories, we're laying it all out in this week's episode where we recorded with Gabrielle Stone on her podcast FML Talk. We're breaking down the rulebook on modern dating, spilling our ridiculous dating stories, and sharing our thoughts on what it really means when people say they feel a "connection" with someone new. Plus we're diving into what's "in" and what's "out" for dating in 2024, so brace yourselves, as we also slip in a story involving a diaper fetish!Follow Gabrielle at @gabriellestone @eatprayfml @fmltalkpodcast and check out her books 'Eat. Pray. FML' and 'The Ridiculous Misadventures of a Single Girl' along with her podcast FML Talk.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or w