Imbetween Podcast On Marriage, Parenting, Faith, And Everything In Between

Resilience is the ability to withstand and overcome. As a parent, you have shown resiliency through a pandemic, through school closures, through canceled playdates and vacations. But, what if you find yourself exhausted from the load of parenting? How do you continue if you feel like you have nothing left to give? In Episode 108, Daniel and Christina interview Laura Howe about the 7 keys to resiliency for the exhausted parent. IMBETWEEN FB COMMUNITY:https://www.facebook.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN SHOWNOTES:IMbetween.org/episode108 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

During the Strengths Based Parenting episode, we mentioned 10 themes that you can start to spot in your child. Here is how to spot the Caring Theme in your child.Caring Theme: 0:40 Characteristics of the Caring child 2:20 Emerging signs of the Caring theme 4:45 Action items for parents with a Caring-themed child Resources And Quotes Mentioned During This Episode: Listen to our previous episode about Strengths Based Parenting Listen to our previous mini episode about The Achiever Child  If you don't know your own strengths, read StrengthsFinder 2.0 by Gallup Have a child that is 15 years old and above? Read CliftonStrengths for Students Have a child between 10 to 14? Read StrengthsExplorer for Ages 10 to 14 Strengths Based Parenting: Developing Your Children's Innate Talents  Listen to our episode about a Strengths Based Marriage  The IMbetween Podcast Drops Twice a Week Now?!Got 10 minutes? Tune in every Friday to hear practical ways of how you can continue to build strong, connected, and joy-filled mar

Do you feel like you have a sexless marriage? You are not alone and there is hope. In Episode 107, Daniel and Christina interview Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley about what triggers sexual inactivity in a marriage, what to do if there is a mismatch in the desire for sex, and some practical steps you can take to resurrect your sex life. Psst...Looking for the sex conversation starter questions mentioned in the episode? Visit IMbetween.org/printables to grab this free resource right away.IMBETWEEN FB COMMUNITY:https://www.facebook.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN SHOWNOTES:IMbetween.org/episode107 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

During the strengths based parenting episode, we mentioned 10 themes that you can start to spot in your child. We didn’t have time to get into detail, so we wanted to deep dive into each theme separately. Here is how to spot the Achiever Theme in your child. Achiever Theme: 1:44 Characteristics of the Achiever 2:44 Emerging signs of the Achieving theme 5:27 Action items for parents with an Achiever-themed child 6:42 What to do if your child doesn't have the achiever theme Resources And Quotes Mentioned During This Episode: Listen to our previous episode about Strengths Based Parenting If you don't know your own strengths, read StrengthsFinder 2.0 by Gallup Have a child that is 15 years old and above? Read CliftonStrengths for Students Have a child between 10 to 14? Read StrengthsExplorer for Ages 10 to 14 Strengths Based Parenting: Developing Your Children's Innate Talents  Listen to our episode about a Strengths Based Marriage  The IMbetween Podcast Drops Twice a Week Now?!Got 10 minutes? Tune in every

Do you believe that not having conflict with your spouse is a sign of a healthy marriage? While, it may seem like couples that don’t disagree or argue, seem to have a good marriage, there is more to the story. In Episode 106, Daniel and Christina discuss why a conflict-free marriage should not be your goal. IMBETWEEN FB COMMUNITY:https://www.facebook.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN SHOWNOTES:IMbetween.org/episode106 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This pandemic has caused us to pause, to breathe, and to take inventory on what matters and what doesn’t. It is almost like we are able to start our year over again. Like New Year's resolutions help us decide what we want to focus on, this is your opportunity to make your "Pandemic Resolutions". Before everything opens up again, this is the perfect time to ask yourself: What stays and what goes.What Stays and What Goes: 0:40 What was your pre-COVID life like?  1:04 Pandemic resolutions 1:23 What is staying? 2:02 What is going? Resources And Quotes Mentioned During This Episode: Needing some more tips about making decisions?  5 Keys To Help You Make Decisions  How Our Brains React In Crisis How To Find Your Family's Purpose What To Do When Life Doesn't Go As Planned 5 Tips To Help You Thrive Your Next Transition Why Slowing Down Life Matters The IMbetween Podcast Drops Twice a Week Now?!Got 10 minutes? Tune in every Friday to hear practical ways of how you can continue to build strong, connected, and joy-fill

What does it mean to talk to our kids about race? What does it mean to engage in conversations of justice, race, and privilege, in the context of diversity? How do we approach these conversations with our kids even when it's hard? What if we don't know what to say? In Episode 105, we interview Cara Meredith about talking to your kids about racism and racial justice. IMBETWEEN FB COMMUNITY:https://www.facebook.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN SHOWNOTES:IMbetween.org/episode105 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You’ve heard the old saying, “More is caught than taught?” Well, this rings even truer as our children observe who we spend time with, who we shy away from, who we shake hands with, or who pretend we don’t see. If we want our children to learn to love God and love others, we can start by practicing hospitality. The Gift Of Hospitality: 1:32 What is hospitality?  2:27 The grander purpose of hospitality  2:48 The power of imperfection  Resources And Quotes Mentioned During This Episode: Talking To Your Kids About Racism and Empathy  In a world that is hurting and longing for hope, we can be the ones that share the good news of the gospel—that they are seen, heard, loved, made in the image of God, and redeemed. We can show them grace. @imbetweenshow How To Raise Kids That Change The World If we really believe in the power of imperfections, that they put people at ease and allow us to truly to connect, then we won’t have to erase all signs of imperfection and real life before we invite people over. We’ll realize

Are there some things your child is naturally better at than other people? What if you could spot those areas of talent and turn them into strengths? That's what this episode is precisely about.In This Episode, You Will Hear About: The importance of knowing your own strengths Why the Strengths-Based parenting approach to raising children is crucial How to notice, appreciate, support, and build on your child's talents The difference between focussing on your child's weakness versus managing their weakness How to cultivate your child's interests and turn them into strengths  IMBETWEEN FB COMMUNITY:https://www.facebook.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN SHOWNOTES:IMbetween.org/episode104 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There are many times we have found ourselves feeling stressed, unsure, scared, anxious, and completely overwhelmed with the brokenness of our world. That is when we stop, open our Bibles and continue to remind ourselves about the promises of God. The promises written in His word about how He will never leave us or forsake us, promises that He is the same yesterday, today, and forever. His word is a balm to our hearts, minds, and souls. It is the cure to our overwhelm.On today’s mini episode, we want to read 7 bible passages to you and over you. So, next time you are feeling “all the feels” and you just don’t know what to do, listen to this episode and remind yourselves of the truth that never fades, never changes, and never fails.  The Cure To Your Overwhelm: 0:31 What to do if you are feeling overwhelmed 1:08 The truth that never fades, never changes, and never fails 6:28 The cure for your anxiety Resources And Quotes Mentioned During This Episode: Psalm 91: The Protection Of The Most High 2 Corinthians 1:3-

Our culture is obsessed with figuring out the "right" way to raise their children. But, what if the most important thing a parent needs to know for a thriving relationship is: you and your child are made for connection.In Episode 103, we interview Dr. Jeffrey and Amy Olrick about what your child really needs from you. The Olricks invite parents to stop treating parenting as a job and to instead embrace it as a journey. They help parents integrate the science of connection with practical tools while using easy-to-understand language. They give parents permission to breathe and show us why it's more important to be present than perfect.  IMBETWEEN FB COMMUNITY:https://www.facebook.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN SHOWNOTES:IMbetween.org/episode103 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In a world that tells us we need to do more, be more, and buy more, it is easy to fall into the trap of more. But actually, one of the best ways to change your life is to do nothing. On today's mini episode, Daniel and Christina discuss how more sleep is exactly what you need to change your life. Change Your Life By Doing Nothing? 0:33 What happens if you don't get enough sleep? 2:02 How sleep can change your life.  2:23 Tips to help you relax and fall asleep.  Resources And Quotes Mentioned During This Episode: One of our primary activities in human life is being neglected–sleep! @imbetweenshow God has designed us to spend 1/3 of our lives sleeping. @imbetweenshow God designed us to be stewards of all parts of our lives - physically, emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. @imbetweenshow We need to begin caring for our bodies by not doing more, but by sleeping more. @imbetweenshow Sleep is a perfect example of the combination of discipline and grace. You cannot make yourself sleep. You cannot force your

Because of this global pandemic, our entire lives are registering on our brains—with red lights twirling around and sirens blasting—ERROR! As a result, our bodies have quickly amped up and our normal everyday functioning—emotionally, spiritually, psychologically, and physically—is off-kilter. In Episode 102, Daniel and Christina discuss how our brains react in a crisis and 5 ways we can hit the reset button to bring back calm into our lives.  IMBETWEEN FB COMMUNITY:https://www.facebook.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN SHOWNOTES:IMbetween.org/episode102 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

With COVID restrictions starting to lift, and the talk about a second pandemic wave possibly coming, you may find yourself feeling more stressed than usual. There are many things you can do to de-stress, but did you know that kissing your spouse is an incredible reliever of stress? On this mini episode, Daniel and Christina share the benefits of passionate kissing.What's In A Kiss? 0:42 What happens when we kiss?  1:05 Feel good chemicals that give you a natural high.  2:04 Kissing versus physical intimacy for relationship happiness.  Resources And Quotes Mentioned During This Episode: Looking for more ways to de-stress? Listen in here: Palms Down, Palms Up Prayer Centering Prayer A Simple Grounding Exercise To Help With Anxiety  The IMbetween Podcast Drops Twice a Week Now?!Got 10 minutes? Tune in every Friday to hear practical ways of how you can continue to build strong, connected, and joy-filled marriages and families. Make sure to subscribe to The IMBetween Podcast, so you don't miss any episodes NOW dro

In Episode 101, Daniel and Christina interview author and business owner, Rebecca Smith about how life is better when it is slow. Imagine a world in which dreams and passions are achieved with slow steps, simple obedience, and steadfast diligence? Is that not the world we are living in today? This pandemic has all forced us to pause, to allow our souls to take a deep breath, and to re-evaluate the goals we've been hustling for. It's time to learn why life is better when it is slow. IMBETWEEN FB COMMUNITY:https://www.facebook.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN SHOWNOTES:IMbetween.org/episode101 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How many times have you lost your cool since the start of this pandemic? How many times have you yelled at your kids or gave the silent treatment to your spouse? No matter your experience with anger, it’s important to be aware of the anger that we feel. It is our body’s way of signaling something is wrong.On today's mini episode, Daniel and Christina address how anger is a secondary emotion; it's a reaction to another emotion. Your anger is trying to tell you something deeper is going on.  What Is Your Anger Telling To Tell You?  1:15 Anger as a secondary emotion.  1:42 Why we need to pay attention to our primary emotions.  2:58 What your anger is trying to signal to you.  4:42 Use your anger as a yellow flag. 4:52 What to do with your anger.  Resources And Quotes Mentioned During This Episode: Hear more about the Palms Down, Palms Up Prayer "What emotion is underneath my anger?" @imbetweenshow "Anger is what we call a secondary emotion. It’s a reaction to another emotion" @imbetweenshow "While anger, frustr

What marriage and parenting advice do a 10, 9, and 5 year old have? To celebrate our 100th episode, our kids are answering your questions! They cover topics like the Enneagram, what parenting advice they'd like to share, and how important they think marriage is. Looking For Date Night Ideas?Here's a FREE printable to keep the romance alive...even during a pandemic! 5 Cozy Quarantine Date Ideas For Busy Parents IMBETWEEN FB COMMUNITY:https://www.facebook.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN SHOWNOTES:IMbetween.org/episode100 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Importance of Journaling: 2:05 What's the purpose of journaling?  3:24 Learning to value our every day lives.  3:52 Discovering moments of grace.  5:05 Frameworks around the process of journaling.  7:22 The importance of guilt-free journaling.  9:00 Inviting our children into the process of reflection.  Resources And Quotes Mentioned During This Episode: To find out more about Leslie, check out her website Pick up a copy of Leslie's copy of her newest book: Your Story Matters: Finding, Writing, and Living The Truth Of Your Life "Journaling is an important way of processing the events of the day thoughtfully." @lesliefields "I don't think we value the plain, beautiful, everyday moments, and we miss seeing God in those moments." @lesliefields "Listen to your life. See it for the fathomless mystery it is. In the boredom and pain of it, no less than in the excitement and gladness: touch, taste, smell your way to the holy and hidden heart of it, because in the last analysis all moments are key moments, and

The longer this pandemic goes on, the more things and events are being canceled. Birthday parties, summer camps, vacations — the list goes on and on. In some ways, it feels like COVID has thrown fun out the window! Now, more than ever,  we need to look for creative ways to incorporate more fun into our lives. In Episode 99, Daniel and Christina share simple ways to incorporate more fun into your daily lives — with yourself, with your family, and with your spouse.IMBETWEEN FB COMMUNITY:https://www.facebook.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/imbetweenshowIMBETWEEN SHOWNOTES:IMbetween.org/episode99 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Most married couples know that they love each other. However, do most married couples know that they are FOR each other? When you are in an argument, do you immediately assume the worst of your spouse, even though you know that they love you? If so, it's time to learn about the power of giving your spouse the benefit of the doubt. Give Your Spouse The Benefit Of The Doubt: 0:33 The difference between loving your spouse versus knowing you are FOR your spouse.  1:28 What happens when you assume the worst of your spouse.  3:32 What happens when you give your spouse the benefit of the doubt.  5:06 How you can calmly communicate that your feelings were hurt.  Resources And Quotes Mentioned During This Episode: Remind yourself that your spouse loves you. @imbetweenshow Remind yourself that your spouse is for you and not against you. @imbetweenshow The IMbetween Podcast Drops Twice a Week Now?!Got 10 minutes? Tune in every Friday to hear practical ways of how you can continue to build strong, connected, and joy-fi