Done Being Single

What happens when three single guys start talking? You get a no-holds barred discussion about women, dating, aging, work, divorce, E.D., porn, getting laid, and definitely finding love. Nothing is off-limits, everything's on the table. It's as close to locker room talk as you're going to get. No bragging about grabbing women by the pussy, we promise!!

Men shouldn't need an instruction manual or combination lock to figure out what they're thinking, what they want, or what makes them tick. Everyone says guys are simple, but we still wonder: what IS going on in their brains? Joining us this week is midlife dating and relationship coach, Jonathan Aslay. With his help, we'll crack the man code, unlock the male mind, and figure out what the hell is going on in there.

What happens when four single chicks get together to shoot the shit about men, dating, and finding love? A gabfest of epic proportions. If you're curious about what women really want, you've come to the right place. From online dating to sex, to old-fashioned courtship, you're about to hear it straight and uncensored. Be a fly on the wall for this candid, no-holds barred roundtable discussion.

When it comes to dating, comedian Craig Shoemaker aka The Love Master, wants you to stop taking it so damn seriously! Yes, single life sucks, but you won't survive it unless you keep your sense of humor, and keep laughing it off when things go south. That's what Craig learned to do after two failed marriages, single fatherhood, and other personal difficulties. Laughter is the best medicine. That, and good weed. Mastering the art of not giving a shit is what it's all about, so tune in and learn from the master himself.

Today, women have the power. They have more money, influence, and authority than ever. On more equal footing with men, women are taking control and leading the charge. But what about in dating? Who takes the lead? Who’s in control? Who makes the first move, and who should pay? If you’re an old-fashioned type who believes in traditional courtship, is feminism and the #MeToo movement empowering you, or is it turning your dating world upside down? Joining us to discuss is acclaimed sex expert and girl boss, Susan Bratton, and Bumble dating app Chief Brand Officer, Alex Williamson. So whether you’re an alpha female, beta male, girly girl, or manly man, we’re going to get to the bottom of who should be on top.

When you’re dating, honesty is always the best policy, but how much is too much? In the interest of full disclosure, how much should you reveal and when? If you know you have issues, should you drop the bomb sooner, later, or not at all? What’s the difference between TMI, and truth in dating anyway? On this week’s episode, we’re inviting love coach Bex Burton and medical therapist Dr. Gretchen Kubacky to share their thoughts on the perils and pluses of letting it rip and keeping it zipped when dating.

Breaking up is hard to do, in fact, it can be pure hell. But in this week's episode, we're going to show how to do it without losing your sanity or soul. To help you survive breakup hell, we're inviting acclaimed psychotherapist Dr. Fran Walfish, and divorce attorney Michelle Afont, to give you their best advice and guidance to piecing your heart and life back together. In addition, we've got other practical tools and survival skills to heal your psyche, boost your confidence, and get you back in the game.

"Everything You Wanted To Know About Sex But Were Afraid To Ask" is an old Woody Allen movie from the 70s, but it's also what we're talking about this week. Sex never gets old, never goes out of style, and can never be explained enough. That's why we're inviting sex educator Lou Paget to get down and dirty with her knowledge about all things sex. From oral to anal, from masturbation to #metoo, we're going there. You've got questions, we've got answers. So tune in, turn on, and don't be afraid!

Everything you want in life: abundance, success, a great relationship, is on the other side of fear. It's on the other side of your limiting beliefs and self-defeating thoughts too. You are deserving and worthy of love, and nothing is keeping you from it except YOU. Fear will conquer you if you don't conquer it first. Our guests this week are personal growth pioneers Gay and Katie Hendricks. In their 40 years of coaching work, they've seen first-hand how fear manifests itself in all areas of life; how it cripples progress and stunts growth. Everything you want is on the other side of fear, and Gay and Katie are going to show you how to get there with some breakthrough ideas, inspired thinking, and fear-slaying techniques.

If you're constantly attracted to crazy chicks, if you're always getting burned by bad boys, if you can't enjoy a relationship without drama or get turned on by someone stable, if sex isn't hot without a hot mess, then you might be addicted to chaos. Dating doesn't have to be dysfunctional, and neither do you! We welcome board certified psychiatrist Dr. Dale Archer to share his insights, and provide counsel to those in the grip of chaos addiction.

If you're just entering the dating world, or have been dating forever, it might be a good time to take a look in the mirror. Do you like what you see? Are you the best version of yourself? Do you look and feel date ready? Maybe it's time to make some changes, update your look, get in shape, or "freshen up" a bit with some cosmetic procedures. Or maybe you just need an attitude adjustment and fresh perspective. If you're single and on the market, it takes work. Upkeep isn't just a chick thing, men need maintenance too. On this week's episode, we're inviting image consultant Kimberly Seltzer, and anti-aging medical expert Dr. Andre Berger to discuss their secret tips and tricks to looking good and being date ready.

As the old joke goes: a human behavioralist, a palm reader, and a psychic, all walk into a bar... What they discover is they all have something in common: the ability to intuit, look deeper, and find hidden signs and meaning into human behavior and personality. On this week's DONE BEING SINGLE, we're inviting metaphysical experts to help explain chemistry and attraction, specifically what to look for in a mate, how to know if a relationship has staying power, and if a person is marriage material. From the psychic realm, to palm reading, to astrological charts, to human assessment tools, we're thinking outside the box to help you get a leg up in the dating world.

You might've had a tough childhood. You might've been a child of divorce, or from a broken home, or without good role models to show you love, or how to function in a healthy, stable relationship. Your past--regardless of how dysfunctional or tumultuous--shouldn't stop you (or keep you) from finding love and attracting healthy relationships. You don't have to be a legacy to what you experienced growing up. You can overcome incredible odds and obstacles, you just need the right guidance. Our guest this week, clinical psychologist Dr. Margaret Rutherford, will give you practical tools, skills, and insight to help you get over your past, and onward to healthy love.

Think that finding a girlfriend/boyfriend/relationship or getting married is what's going to make you happy? Think again! Your happiness is not attached to something or someone outside yourself. It comes from within, and it's all within reach. You can be the boss of your own happiness, and we're going to show you how. On this episode of DONE BEING SINGLE, Happiness Coach Ricky Powell, and former CNN anchor and syndicated newspaper columnist Daryn Kagan, will share their tools and secrets not just for finding happiness, but taking charge of it.

Sex and the Single Girl was wildly popular non-fiction book written in 1962 by Helen Gurley Brown, editor of Cosmopolitan Magazine. It broke taboos and sold millions by encouraging women to take charge of their sex lives at a time when men had all the power in the bedroom. 56 years later, the single girl might have more say and more power, but she still has questions about sex, and she isn’t afraid to ask. Whether you’re a single gal worried about her sexual mojo, or a guy wondering how to turn his girl on, all your questions will be answered by our guest this week, psychotherapist, writer, and sex coach, Vanessa Marin.

You say you want to be in a relationship, but do you even know how? Do you know what it takes to find a healthy, stable partner? Do you know what's required to sustain a happy partnership? Treva and Robby are still learning, and want to share their discoveries and insights with you. So they're hitting the couch for some live, on-air, couples counseling with Jonathan Robinson, psychotherapist and author of the bestselling book, "Communication Miracles for Couples."

The Rolling Stones once said: “You can’t always get what you want, but if you try sometime, you find you get what you need.” But when you’re single and dating, can you get what you need without settling? Is even a little settling too much? How do you keep your bar raised, your standards high, and still be realistic? The real truth is, you get what you need when you stop searching, and start settling. Settling isn’t a dirty word, it’s just misunderstood. On this week’s episode of DONE BEING SINGLE, we’re inviting Lori Gottlieb, psychotherapist and author of the New York Times bestseller, “MARRY HIM: The Case For Marrying Mr. Good Enough,” to put a different spin on settling. And she should know—she wrote the book on it.

Dating with baggage--you may have it, or you may be dating someone who has it. Kids, a crazy ex, an ugly divorce, personal issues, all qualify as stuff we bring with us when we date and get into new relationships. The baggage might be heavy, but it doesn't have to weigh you down. Our guest this week, Tom Carouso, MFT, will help you unpack your baggage, unload your stuff, and free yourself up to love.

Sex when you're single can be wild and fun if you're adventurous, or it can spell doom and gloom if you're not careful. It all depends on where you're at, what your needs are, and what kind of shape your ego is in. Long term relationship? Marriage? Fuck buddy? Casual hook-up? There's something for everybody, you just gotta be clear on what you want first. Tune into DONE BEING SINGLE and let Treva and Robby help guide you through the Wild West of singles sex.

Who are you online? A straight shooter or con job? Do you lie about your age, height, weight, income, marital status, etc. on dating apps? Or, do you tell the truth and hope for the best? On this week’s DONE BEING SINGLE, we’re delving into the shady world of online dating, with its liars, bullshitters, and yes, some very good people too. Adding her insights to the discussion will be cyber-dating expert Julie Spira, author of the bestseller, “The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online.”