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Grief isn’t just about death—it shows up in breakups, job loss, identity shifts, and the quiet heartbreaks of everyday life. In this episode, Kelly sits down with grief expert and psychotherapist John Tsilimparis, author of The Magic in the Tragic, to talk about grief recovery, emotional healing, and why our culture gets grief all wrong. They discuss how unresolved grief can fuel anxiety and panic, the power of mindfulness in emotional chaos, and practical tools for those navigating loss. If you’ve been taught to rush through grief or skip over heartbreak, John offers a completely different approach—one rooted in compassion, mindfulness, and emotional honesty. He shares tangible tools for navigating anxiety, moving through pain instead of avoiding it, and finding meaning in the mess—even when our culture doesn’t give us permission to grieve. John's website: JohnTsilimparis.com Book: The Magic In The Tragic  Socials: @jtsilimparis Watc

In this week’s episode, Kelly and Chip share hilarious life updates—from Chip’s injury at his mom’s 80th birthday party to Kelly’s bizarre realization that she might have worked with Elvis. (Yes, that Elvis.) They also unpack Kelly’s recent conversation with Hope Woodard about the viral “Boy Sober” movement, what it means to stop chasing validation, and how it’s helping women take their power back in dating. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Viral TikTok creator and comedian Hope Woodard joins Kelly to share the raw, hilarious, and deeply personal story behind Boysober—a self-defined dating detox that turned into a global movement and iHeartPodcast. From chaotic situationships and generational patterns to self-worth and family healing, Hope opens up about what drove her to pause dating, what she learned about herself in that space, and how the movement continues to evolve. This episode dives into what it means to prioritize yourself over being wanted, and how humor, heartbreak, and healing can coexist. Instagram: @justhopinalong  Podcast: Boysober Read: 'She's not celibate, she's boysober' Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kelly and Chip are back with a catch-up session full of life updates, laughs, and a deep dive into the way modern relationships are being redefined. From couples who live apart to the surprising perks of separate bedrooms, they unpack the rise of “off-kilter” domestic arrangements and why more people are choosing love on their own terms. Chip shares his perspective on how the queer community has long been ahead of the curve in rewriting the rules—and why that might be a good thing for everyone. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr. Kelly Coyne joins Kelly to explore the rise of unconventional domestic arrangements—think married couples who live apart, partners who sleep separately, and stay-at-home dads. As featured in The New York Times and The Washington Post, Dr. Coyne’s work challenges the traditional idea of what marriage should look like and invites us to rethink how we build relationships that actually work for us. Together, they unpack how these modern models can foster independence, intimacy, and emotional growth.  Socials: @kelly_coyne Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Whether it’s a tense moment mid-podcast, a weird fight with your partner, or a silent meltdown over the dishwasher—this week, Kelly and Chip dig into the moments that seem small but hit surprisingly hard. Inspired by a real-time disagreement between Kelly and astrologer Marv, they explore how emotional triggers sneak into our reactions... and how it’s rarely about what we think it’s about. From ego flare-ups to awkward self-awareness, they break down:– Why that “tiny” comment felt like a personal attack– How to tell the difference between overreacting and finally reacting– What to say when you’re actually feeling hurt (and not just mad about the text)– And the art of not combusting at the cookout With the 4th of July around the corner—aka prime time for family tension and wine-fueled sensitivity—Kelly and Chip offer real (and funny) tips to help you pause, reflect, and maybe not flip a table o

Kelly sits down with astrologer Marvin Wilkerson to talk about the deeply emotional waters of the Cancer New Moon—how this lunation calls us to reflect on our inner world, self-image, and the stories we carry from childhood. But halfway through the episode, theory turns into practice as an unresolved issue from a past conversation resurfaces between Kelly and Marv—showing the exact astrology he was explaining in real time. From soul lessons to soft shells, and how our ego can still run the show, this episode is both a cosmic download and a raw, real-time reminder that astrology isn’t just something we study—it’s something we live. Book a personal chart reading with Marv: marvin@astromarv.com Book: Soul Fusion Healing Visit Marvin's Website at astromarv.com or blhypnosis.com Watch The Velvet's Edge on YouTube! HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for pr

Piggybacking off Kelly’s conversation with dream expert Bonnie Buckner, she and Chip dive even deeper into the wild world of dreams—sharing personal dream stories (including Chip’s two recurring dreams and Kelly’s latest vivid vision), decoding what they might mean, and uncovering how dreams are actually one of the most underrated tools for creativity and clarity. They also explore how billion-dollar companies like Salesforce were born in a dream, and why daydreaming might be your brain’s most powerful business partner. If you’ve been feeling creatively stuck, craving insight, or just curious about what’s really happening while you sleep—this episode might be exactly what your subconscious ordered. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omn

Dr. Bonnie Buckner joins Kelly to explore the untapped power of your dreams—not just as nighttime entertainment, but as a tool for healing, clarity, and even creativity. Bonnie shares insights from her new book The Secret Mind and breaks down the different kinds of dreams we have, what they’re trying to tell us, and how to interact with them in a way that actually moves the needle in our lives. They also dive into why creativity levels are at an all-time low—and how dreamwork can reignite inspiration, intuition, and deeper self-connection. Whether you’re someone who always remembers your dreams or can’t recall a thing, this conversation will make you think twice about what happens while you sleep. Book: The Secret Mind Website: bonniebuckner.com or institutefordreamingandimagery.com socials: @bonniebucknerdotcom HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/li

While Chip and Kelly take the week off, listen back to one of their all-time favorite episodes: “Revenge vs. Resilience: Why Failing Forward Is the Real Flex.” In this throwback convo, they dive into society’s twisted relationship with success and unpack why failure isn’t something to hide—it’s something to honor. From Oprah to Steve Jobs, they explore how setbacks shaped some of the most powerful comeback stories of our time. And with this week’s Wednesday episode exploring revenge as a brain-based addiction, this conversation hits even harder. When we’re hurt or rejected, it’s easy to reach for blame or bitterness—but what if resilience is the real rebellion? What if failure is the first step, not the end? Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnyst

We’ve all felt that fire—the urge to get even, to make someone feel the pain they caused us. But at what point does that fire start burning us? This week, Kelly sits down with Yale Psychiatry lecturer, lawyer, and author James Kimmel, Jr. to explore the gripping science behind revenge—and why it behaves more like an addiction than a rational choice. In his new book The Science of Revenge, James reveals how holding a grudge activates the same neural pathways as drug cravings and how many of us get stuck in revenge loops without even realizing it. Together, they unpack why revenge is so seductive, what it’s doing to our health and society, and the surprisingly powerful antidotes backed by neuroscience. In this episode: Why revenge feels so good… until it doesn’t How ruminating on a grievance wires the brain for addiction The real difference between forgiveness and letting someone off the hook How mindfulness, gratitude, and self-compassion help break the cycle What James be

In this follow-up to Kelly’s conversation with Human Design expert Emma Dunwoody, Chip comes in hot with all the beginner questions — because he’s never heard of Human Design (and has a lot of thoughts). From understanding what it actually is to figuring out if it’s helpful or just another “life hack,” Kelly and Chip unpack their personal takes on self-discovery, purpose, and whether society has put too much pressure on us all to find “the one thing” we’re here to do. They also dive into why Kelly loves exploring tools like Human Design in the first place — breaking down her curiosity around life’s bigger questions and how different modalities can support spiritual growth. The conversation gets real about religion, personal belief systems, and how these practices can add depth (not conflict) to your existing faith or inner journey. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetse

Master Coach, Human Behavior Specialist, and host of the Human Design Podcast, Emma Dunwoody is back for round 2—hi Emma! In this episode, we dive even deeper into the world of Human Design and its powerful tools for self-understanding and alignment. Whether you’re a total beginner or already obsessed, this conversation will give you fresh clarity on how to actually use Human Design in your everyday life. We explore: The real difference between Gene Keys and Human Design What your Incarnation Cross says about your soul’s purpose The meaning of defined vs. undefined centers—and how to use them in relationships Why your gates and channels hold the keys to your unique expression   This is one of those episodes that might just change how you see yourself. Let’s get into it.   Resources + Emma’s Links: Emma’s New Book: Human Design Made Simple (https://www.emmadunwoody.com/book) Website: https://www.emmadunwoody.com Human Design Podcast: https://www.emmadunwoo

This episode was inspired by Wednesday’s astrology chat with Marvin Wilkerson, where Kelly and Marv got into a full-on (loving) debate about the difference between feelings, emotions, and intuition. It turns out… that convo kind of broke Kelly’s brain. So today, Kelly and Chip are picking up the thread—trying to figure out what it actually means to move from a feeling (not an emotion, not a thought), and how the hell you’re supposed to know whether you’re being led by intuition or just plain fear. Spoiler: we’re still confused. But we’re breaking it all down the best we can—and asking for your help. How do you tell the difference between a gut feeling and a panic spiral disguised as clarity? Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for

Master astrologer and coach, Marvin Wilkerson, joins Kelly for the June astrology forecast—and things get philosophical fast. Together, they explore the key astrological events of the month, including the Gemini New Moon, Sagittarius Full Moon, and the tense square between Saturn, Neptune, and Jupiter—which all challenge the way we think, believe, and perceive truth. Marvin and Kelly also engage in a debate about what it actually means to operate from “feelings” instead of emotions or thoughts. If that sounds confusing, here’s a tip: try substituting the word inner knowing for “feelings” to help it land. This episode is packed with insights on how to navigate mental fog, emotional overwhelm, and spiritual growth under June’s cosmic weather.  Email Marv to book a session (mention Velvet’s Edge) for a discount: marvin@astromarv.com  Check out Marvin's NEW BOOK BY CLICKING HERE! Visit Marvin's Website at astromarv.com or blhypnosis.com Watch The Vel

Ever freeze up when someone asks, “So what do you do?” Same. This week, Kelly and Chip get real about the art of pitching yourself—whether you’re building a personal brand, applying for a job, or just trying to explain your vibe without sounding like a walking résumé. We break down the essentials of crafting a compelling personal narrative (without the fluff), share our own branding growing pains, and talk about how to own your story in a way that feels authentic, not awkward. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever wonder how women land major deals, build powerful brands, and grow their businesses from scratch? In this episode, Kelly talks to Marty McDonald—founder of Boss Women Media and the Elle Olivia brand now featured in Target—about how to pitch yourself with confidence, define your personal brand, and make bold career moves. They get real about what it actually takes to be an entrepreneur, how to use storytelling to grow your business, and why betting on yourself is the best investment you can make. Marty also shares exclusive insight into her upcoming book Audacious, and what’s next in her mission to empower women through strategy, community, and self-belief. Visit the website: https://campsite.bio/bosswomen Instagram: @martymcdonald & @bosswomenmedia  HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Let’s be real—if you’re a human in the world, you’ve probably been triggered. In this episode, Kelly and Chip unpack what emotional triggers actually are, why they show up, and how they can be surprising (and even helpful). Chip shares some honest moments about realizing his own triggers—and the shame that came with not seeing them sooner. Kelly reframes triggers as signs from our nervous system, not personal failures. From emotional spirals over texts to unexpected aha moments, this episode will help you feel a little more normal—and a lot more self-aware. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Renowned therapist turned holistic life coach Michelle Chalfant joins the podcast to break down The Adult Chair model—her powerful framework for emotional healing and personal transformation. Michelle shares how to move from stuck to empowered by embracing the 5 core pillars of a healthy adult self: owning your reality, feeling your emotions, practicing self-compassion, understanding your triggers, and setting grounded boundaries. We also talk about why traditional therapy sometimes misses the mark, how to work with your inner critic, and why triggers might actually be gifts in disguise.  Visit Michelle's website: TheAdultChair.com Listen to Michelle's podcast, The Michelle Chalfant Show HERE! HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Think you’re just tired? It might be deeper than that. In this episode, Chip and Kelly explore the hidden causes of burnout—like invisible labor and the “tolerations” we quietly put up with every day. These small, constant energy leaks can lead to emotional exhaustion, mental fatigue, and even resentment. Chip also shares surprising signs of burnout that go way beyond physical tiredness. If you’ve been feeling off or drained and can’t quite name it, this conversation might connect some dots. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.