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Rainbow_Kitten7 (Fetlife) is a stay at home mother of seven who delights in directing her children’s education through homeschooling. She has been married for 23 years to UnicornHusbandry (Fetlife) who is not only a chef professionally but loves spoiling her with cooking at home. You can often find her in long, deep, intimate conversations about philosophy, theology, or kink with friends over coffee or wine. Her favorite is an intertwining of the three. She loves reflecting and writing about her journey on Fetlife. Realizing that she was not alone in her new found libido at 40, she has set out to be a voice to other women in her same shoes. Embracing a more nontraditional hotwife scenario, her voice is unique in having such a long term, loving relationship while simultaneously embracing her inner slut. This page was removed last year do to a community outing. You can find out what happened in the 2020 Year End Show.

A Faerie Tale Once there was a Princess who had pretty boobs, shapely feet, and a way with words. She had kissed way too many frogs in her life (none of them French, she’s not rude like that, to call people cruel names, unlike the evil ruler of her country), so, she had just about given up hope of ever finding her prince. Then one day, a handsome gentleman with courtly manners showed up and asked her to dance. Filled with wonder, she said, “fuck, yes!” To be continued … And so it goes. This week we visit with Maggie LaFae, yes you have heard that name before back in episode 169. Maggie and her soulmate ATI join us to tell the real life story of their courtship. Maggie details the event on Fetlife in a multi-chapter story, part fiction, part reality. When a woman of 64 years and a man of 52 get together and light a romantic fire that burns so brightly, all we can do is applaud. Sit back and hear the story of two lovers and the modern way they found each other. Link to the Faerie Tale: https://fetlife.com/

Page Tuner is a prolific writer and share her thoughts on Fetlife and her site Poly.Land. Below is a link to the writing that caught our eye, because it so personal and so relevant to our fellow Kinksters. Page has been a guest on the cast several times in the past and always brings perspective to polyamorous relationships and those looking to start one. For more information of her writings, visit Poly.Land on the web. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/258---page-turner---an-open.html

Mistress Tulsa has been involved in the Atlanta BDSM community since the mid 90's, having been a regular at PEP Atlanta and Sanctuary of the Dark Angel. Although her background is in classic D/s-M/s and heavy sadomasochism, she has an affectionate solidarity with the local leather community and various lifestyle niche groups. Over the years, she has been involved in two long-term M/s poly relationships as a slave, but is now happily in a long-term monogamous relationship, with Mr. Stripey Pants in service to her. She loves her role as Mistress, but feels very strongly that every couple should make their relationship uniquely suited to their needs. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/257---mistress-tulsa--.html

Every year at this time we gather members of the KinkyCast crew and sit around the dining table to discuss the happenings in our world. This year’s topic is Mainstreaming. We once had an exclusive little club called Kink. It didn’t matter if you were LGBTQ+, swinger, poly, straight, BDSM practitioner, or any of the other flavors for kink that make the crazy quilt that we are. We stayed underground, because it was safe. The fewer outsiders that knew about what we did, the better. Time goes by and now it seems everyone you meet is kinky in some way. They read a book, saw in on TV, or were surprised by it in a movie. Curiosity blooms. Follow the links below for a lot more info. Mainstreaming is the main theme, but we go off in the corners and talk about kinky education, where to get it and the make-up of a kinkster. Our panel of seven discuss what’s going on and how to stay safe in style. We also bring in our old friend Master Cecil for perspective. Join, Woody, Leigh, Autumn Orange, Terik, the Beast

Every year at Christmas time we sit down with Susan Wright of the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSFreedom.org). We talk about what’s in the news that Kinksters, polyamorists, and the spectrum of players that we call friends. With the many changes in the presidential cabinet, we wonder what was changer in 2018 and what might change in 2019. What rights we may loose, current freedoms that will be less free and the just plain fucking us that is so irritable. This is always an informative show and this year is loaded with some gems that you may not have noticed, in your daily life… Yet! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/255---susan-wright---ncsf--.html

In our exhausting search for new and different things to bring out listeners, we stumble onto some pretty interesting people and some downright hilarious writings. Tonight we bring you, Is Mostly Evil’s slightly tilted world of lazy Domming. How did IsMostlyEvil (aka IsMe) get here, you need to listen to this wild ride into a lazy world… But first, a disclaimer of sorts... I do want to point out to those who don't quite get the concept of satire and humor: This is for entertainment purposes only. This is not an actual guide to anything. Yes, many of the ideas and concept in the following writings do actually work, but as a stand alone thing, you'd be a complete shit of a person to treat someone this way.
https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/254-ismostlyevil---the-lazy.html

WTF? Consent Apps? A do-it-yourself, grab your phone, and get consent for whatever you want/need. These 'said to be legally binding' apps will simply not get the job done in a court of law. In the show we describe several types that include everything from recording a video together giving both participants' ‘permission’ to debauch. Others have a check list of BDSM kinks and what will be strictly followed by the people involved. Long time friend of the Cast, Lady Steele, Lawyer to the Kinksters, brings a legal perspective to the app and what you should expect as a participant. Lady Steele has served in the Leather community since 1999 and has presented and volunteered across the country. She resides in Atlanta where she operates her law practice that serves alternative lifestyles. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/253---lady-steele---consent.html

Bella LaVey spent five years as the highly sought-after dominatrix and erotic wrestler known as Evil Kitty. Through her own sexual awakening, she learned that there is nothing more powerful than bringing one’s darkness into the light and owning your story. Bella believes we must become unshameable around our sexuality to become sexually whole and empowered. She is a holistic sex and relationship coach and facilitates several workshops in the domains of embodiment, tantra, intimacy and erotic polarity at her studio, Temple Shakti in Austin. Her book, Fetish Girl: A Memoir of Sex, Domination and Motherhood was be published on November 13th. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/252---bella-lavey---author.html

Over the course of our history we have had the privilege to talk about polyamory with so many of our guests. We have had a lot of insight into how all of the pieces can fit into a working poly relationship. So, when we were approached by longtime friend of the cast, AutumnOrange, with the idea of an inside look at poly relationship we were happy to do so! When we last checked, this popular polycule’s recent video from Extreme Love had 16 million plus views within just a few short days. So, please join Autumn, Woody, and the Beast as they get the inside scoop from Ken, Vanessa/Bela, and Daniel as they tell us all about their poly relationship, their lives, and a little bit of everything in between. Follow the show link to to get all the info, like see the video!

"How Do You Deal With All These Angry Comments?" Journal Entry "I just saw your latest entry," goes the text. "Holy shit, how do you deal with all of these idiots leaving snarky comments?" So I thought I'd share my official Tips For Handling FetLife Comment-Storms: Tip #1: Be A Dude. As with so many other things in Western culture, if you can manage to be a dude, and preferably perceived as a cis one, then your comments will immediately become 70% easier to deal with. People sure do love hammering on women on the Internet, so if you're perceived as a girl, you'll have some more work to do. Now. This isn't to say that you'll receive no comments as a duderino. In fact, I can hear the menfolks saying, "MEN HAVE IT SO MUCH HARDER ON THE INTERNET! I MYSELF - " how you can survive. Good luck. (Read more on KinkyCast.com)

I do the things they say shouldn't be done. Whether it's hangings or crucifixions, it is not for the faint of heart. I do tend to enjoy play that involves a bit of an edge. Some of the pics are from ideas I and/or one of those wonderful playmates had in mind. I like playing with a wide variety of styles and interests. Yes the pics show mostly the more edgy stuff (that's what catches people's eye), but that doesn't mean I won't equally enjoy what a new playmate wants to try. Maybe I have inadvertently scared off a few prospective folks when they see some of the pics. The one thing they fail to see is those extreme scenes are done with people I have played with, usually, for years. A first play, like a first kiss can be equally rewarding with its potential for exploration and revelation. I guess that's the teacher in me.

This week we explore Pushing Limits, the good, the bad and the ugly! Our guest is Ropetigerdaddy is a frequent writer on Fetlife as well as the author of several books with the intent of helping guide new people to the lifestyle. He lives in the rural midwest on a small farm with his babygirl.

#247 - Ascending Phoenix - Author AscendingPhoenix is a certified hypnotherapist, a Master NLP practitioner, and a Master Shaman. After beginning his kink adventures in Atlanta in 2002, kink has became a core part of his life. He has been involved in erotic hypnosis since 2007, and has been active teaching in the kink community since 2010. His presentations tend to cover the mental and emotional aspects of BDSM, usually including an emphasis on healing and headspace.

Tonight I had sex with two men. I was tied up, spanked, humiliated, degraded. My tits were bruised, my face was smacked. I have marks on my ass and thighs. Every hole I have that could accommodate a cock was used. I came over and over, until I lost count. My cum soaked the sheets. My body still aches from the use and abuse. This is an example of the dirty, nasty things I do. I top. I bottom. I like cock. I like pussy. I enjoy pain. I enjoy giving pain to others. I love sex, I love BDSM and I have a drive that any 18 year old male would be proud of.

Hi there I’m Angelknightxxx on fetlife and angelic_knight on IG. Feel free to send me a message and check out my portfolio. I have been modeling for 2 years and enjoy it very much. I have collaborated with some talented individuals and I know just how blessed I am. I have been in the lifestyle for about 5 years now and have been more active in the last year. I am a bonafide pain slut and rope enthusiast. Whips are my friend as well as canes. I enjoy the art of Kinbaku and Semenawa as its torture in rope with beautiful suffering.

It may be in the news, but how does it affect you? More people than you could imagine have been sexually attacked. Guest Host, Miss_Tress visits with Doc Cinnamon to layout how personal an attack can be. These two well informed women give you a political view for current news in the Me Too movement. This is an important special edition that will make everyone that listens, rethink their own past.

Race: I’ve been active in the Leather scene since 1973. Initially, apart from being a bartender in a sleazy kinky bar, I was essentially a lone maverick player. Then around 1980 I got deeply involved with various clubs, organizations and projects that changed that lone wolf status. Since then I’ve been an organizer, writer, educator, speaker and activist in the LGBT, leather/kink, polyamory and HIV/STI prevention realms. I’ve authored a well-known BDSM book, been published extensively, spoken to hundreds of audiences, created the world’s largest kink-friendly psychotherapist and medical referral service (Kink Aware Professionals), was a leader of The DSM Project that led to a beneficial change in the way psychotherapy views BDSM, founded a groundbreaking alternative sexuality publishing company (Daedalus Publishing Company), been an internet radio sex talk show host, received national and local awards, appeared in numerous documentaries, and currently am the Leather/kink columnist for the Bay Area Reporter ht

Scarlett is a writer, teacher and wild woman with 20+ years in polyamory. Money & Poly Sex & money don’t mix, or do they? How you think about money and relationships impacts how your relationships grow and intertwine. It’s just as important that we consent to our money relationships as we consent to our romantic / sexual / kinky relationships. When do you speak up about how you relate to money? The negotiation skills we learn in our communities can come in handy when you’re dealing with money. A healthy relationship with money starts with your own wallet, expressing expectations and limits, and what to do when things go awry.

Welcome beginners, old-hats, onlookers and those who are curious. 4X4, KianteWench, German and Aria lead this Q&A discussion on Polyamory and its many forms in a basic and straightforward way with the key goal of educating and enabling people who want to start or enhance their Ethical non-monogamy journey. The hosts can be reached via Fetlife.