Sex With Dr. Jess

Board - certified urologist; Dr. Joshua Gonzalez joins us to answer your sexual health questions. What can I do about ED? Are there natural treatment options for someone on blood pressure meds? How can I deal with Interstitial Cystitis? What can I do about vaginal atrophy, itchiness, and irritation? Should I be worried that one testicle pulls up into my body at orgasm? Can I speed up my orgasm? I have delayed ejaculation. What can I do to improve the taste of my ejaculate? Our guest, Dr. Josh Gonzalez is fellowship-trained in Sexual Medicine and specializes in the management of sexual dysfunctions. He completed his medical education at Columbia University and his urological residency at the Mount Sinai Medical Center. Throughout his career, Dr. Gonzalez has focused on advocating for sexual health and by; providing improved healthcare to the LGBTQ+ community. You can follow Dr. Gonzalez on his social media accounts from his Twitter to his Instagram. He also; recently started a men's health suppl

Take your pleasure to the next level by exploring the emotions that intensify the experience. Your elevated erotic feelings (EEFs), can heighten physical pleasure, psychological thrill, emotional fulfilment, intimate connection, spiritual experience, and much more. In most cases, no physical technique or position can compare to exploring the emotional dimensions of pleasure, so this week, we dive deeper into the emotional-erotic connection. Don’t forget to check out our sponsors AdamAndEve.com — they’re offering 50% off almost any item + a bunch of FREE gifts & free shipping with code DRJESS. And if you have questions for the podcast or topic suggestions, submit them here. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health, or other professional advice, diagnosis, or treatm

How do you need to feel in order to get in the mood for sex? Relaxed? Loved? Safe? Desired? Your core erotic feeling (CEF) is the feeling you require in order to get in the mood for sex, and it can revolutionize the way you approach pleasure, seduction, and sex. If you or a partner; have trouble getting in the mood, or if you find that erotic touch often isn’t enough - this episode will help youbetter understand the emotional-erotic connection, so you can have all the hot sex you desire. If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. If you're looking to add a new toy to your collection or for something that will buzz and vibrate bringing new and intense pleasure, check out our friends at Lovehoney.com. Use code DRJESS15 at checkout to save! Big thanks to our sponsors AdamandEve.com — use code DRJESS50 to save 50% off almost any single item + get FREE gifts and free shipping. From dildos to butt plugs to lube and lingerie, they’ve got you covered. We've extended the Mind

What is the appeal of sissification? How do you introduce kinky play to a partner? What are the 7 types of sissification? How can consensual humiliation become erotic? Sexologist & psychotherapist Carlos Cavazos (pronounced Kuh-Voss-oh's) joins us to share his experience and perspective on kinks, fetishes, gender-bending, and much more! Check out Carlos’ The Naughtylicious Sex Podcast, and learn more about his practice at Counseling By Carlos. And don't forget to give Carlos a follow on his Twitter account! Thank you to our sponsors AdamAndEve.com. — use code DRJESS to save 50% off almost any item + get FREE gifts & shipping. And if you’re shopping for Womanizer or We-Vibe toys, also use code DRJESS to save at checkout. As always, we love to hear from you, so submit your podcast questions and insights here. You can subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. T

How often should you get tested? What are the risks of oral sex? What are the risks of giving oral when you have a cold sore? How can you reduce the risk of STI transmission? What do STI tests entail? Can you get any STIs from a toilet seat or bed sheets? How soon should you get tested after potential exposure? Dr. Ina Park, author of Strange Bedfellows, Adventures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDs joins us to answer all of our questions about making sex safer and de-stigmatizing STIs. You can follow Ina on Instagram to learn more! Thank you to our sponsors AdamAndEve.com. Please let them know you heard about them here by using code DRJESS to save 50% + get a bunch of FREE gifts + free shipping. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and send us your questions here. You can subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Thanks for tuning in! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any

How can I use my breath to explore multiple orgasms? Are there different types of multiple orgasms? How many orgasms can you have in one session? How do I have full-body orgasms? We explore these questions and more while sharing techniques and strategies for more pleasure (and more orgasms) — from the “cup and pulse” technique to the blended orgasm, you’re sure to find something new to try whether your partnered or solo. Thank you to our sponsors AdamAndEve.com — use code DRJESS to save 50% off almost any item + get FREE gifts & shipping. And if you’re shopping for Womanizer toys, also use code DRJESS to save at checkout. And if you’re interested in checking out the adults-only Desire Cruises, you can learn more here. As always, we love to hear from you, so submit your podcast questions and insights here. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! And check out the computer-generated (unedited) transcript below: Rough Transcript: This is

Luna Matatas & Marla Renee Stewart join us to offer a sneak peek into their Kinky Tapas retreat. They answer all of our questions including: How do I begin to explore my dominant side? What’s the difference between Dominance & submission versus Topping and Bottoming? How do I ensure safety when exploring psychological kink? How do I introduce a bit of kink into our existing sexual routine? When can pain be pleasurable? How can I explore genital worship and torture? Check out the Kinky Tapas seminar in Oakland, California April 29th - May 1st. (Use code KINKMEUP to save!) Hosted in two beautiful dungeons, the event includes catering & kinky photography and explorations of a range of topics including: Luna & Marla will take you to two dungeons in California where they’ll cover: Confidence and erotic creativity Scene Setting, Safety & Communication Commanding a Room Developing confidence and presence Dominant Do’s and Don’ts Submissive Communication Skills Rope Bondage Spanking &

Do you struggle with rejection? How does your response vary from the boardroom to the bedroom? Do layers of your identity affect how you deal with rejection? We surveyed our community regarding their experiences of rejection, and we shared their insights in this week’s episode. We think it’s a great one! Thank you to those who sent messages. We appreciate you. Thank you to our sponsors AdamAndEve.com - save 50% on almost any single item + get free shipping and a bunch of other FREEBIES with code DRJESS     If you’re looking for an episode on sexual initiation techniques, click here. Check out the 12 insights on managing rejection below, as well as the full transcript (scroll down). 12 Insights on Rejection from Our Community (Some of these have been edited for clarity/brevity.) Why can women say no to sex, but when a guy says no, it’s crazy? For me, it’s all about connection. When I get rejected over and over again, it brings up feelings of unlovability, unworthiness, being unimportant, etc

What should you do when a love interest pulls back out of nowhere? Perhaps you’re hitting it off and then all of a sudden things change — texts messages become sparser, response times are longer or they simply wait for you to initiate. They’re still engaged and don’t seem to want to end things, but you’re left feeling confused and rejected. Jess & Brandon weigh in with their thoughts and scripts to help you respond and they also talk about their experiences with rejection. Adam and Eve are extending their offer of 50% off almost any item + FREE Shipping + some FREE goodies with code DRJESS. If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so pl

Can you recognize the signs of human trafficking? Would you know what to do to support someone who is being victimized by a trafficker? February 22 is National Human Trafficking Awareness Day, so this week we’re discussing prevalence, signs, and what you can do if you or someone you know is at risk. Call the Canadian Human Trafficking Hotline: 1-833-900-1010. Or chat online at www.canadianhumantraffickinghotline.ca And don’t forget to go back and listen to Episode 147: How to Help Someone in an Abusive Relationship If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is

Want to boost connection & appreciation in a matter of minutes? In this episode, we work our way through this short activity, One Thing I Love About You. You can try it with a partner or anyone else you love. It’s simple and you can power through it in a few minutes if you keep things short and sweet. Use these prompts to get started: One thing I love about your body… One thing I love about your voice… One thing I love about your energy/aura… One thing I love about your touch… One thing I love about your personality… One thing I love about your character… One thing I love about how you interact with others… One thing I love about how you treat me… One thing I love about your… This exercise is excerpted from The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay: Techniques & Strategies for Mind-Blowing Pleasure by Jessica O’Reilly & Marla Renee Stewart. This book is full of advice and activities designed to help you better understand and communicate sexual needs, desires, and values. Order your copy

Phone sex can be smokin’ hot — for auditory lovers, long-distance play partners, and anyone who wants to spice things up with dirty talk and fantasy exploration. Jess and Brandon share their thoughts and tips for the hottest phone sex, along with a few lines you can use to get started if you’re feeling shy or awkward. Are you looking for body butter, hand cream, massage candles, and/or oils (Body/ Massage/ Bath)  - check out our wonderful podcast sponsor this week, High On Love. WeVibe has app-enabled toys. And they are having a sale for Valentine's Day. Save some more using code DRJESS. And for those who'd like to take a listen to our previous episode on Dirty Talk, you can check out "Master Dirty Talk: 60+ Tips & Examples" here. If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on App

Want to explore dry orgasms, multiple orgasms, edging, and more? We’ve got specific strategies and techniques you can experiment with tonight — all in the name of multiplying pleasure. If you're looking to add a new toy to your collection or for something that will buzz and vibrate bringing new and intense pleasure, check out our friends at Lovehoney, We-Vibe and Womanizer. Use code DRJESS15 at checkout to save! Big thanks to our sponsors AdamandEve.com — use code DRJESS50 to save 50% off almost any single item + get FREE gifts and free shipping. From dildos to butt plugs to lube and lingerie, they’ve got you covered. Check out the Mind Blowing Oral: Penis or Clit Edition sale. This comprehensive video course was designed to help you perfect and deepen your skill set, all while laughing along to the hilarious jokes of Dr. Jess. If you have questions for the podcast, submit them here. And please be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! You can find the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean

You don’t have to intensify your orgasms, but if you want to explore techniques to do so, we’ve got you covered. We share easy strategies you can try tonight! We also discuss the Foot Locker ejaculator incident and sex in public parks. Check out the toys mentioned in the podcast here. The Womanizer Duo and the Aneros brand like the Helix (prostate massager) Valentine's Day is not too far away. Our always astounding sponsor, Adam and Eve is offering, between now and Valentine's Day, some additional items to what they have been offering. With code DRJESS, during these two weeks, you can get 50% off almost any item plus 10 FREE gifts (items could include for her, for him, for both, and a couple of movies) and FREE shipping. Order now to get their Valentine's, Lovers Kit! If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possi

Today’s quickie answers a few viewer questions about why ghost-facing is all the rage and how to spice things up when mobility is limited. Just a reminder, our wonderful sponsor Adam and Eve is offering 50% off almost any item + FREE shipping + some FREE goodies if you use code DRJESS. If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Ghost-facing Q&A You're listening to

How much time should you spend together? What constitutes quality time? How do you talk about your need for alone time, and time apart? How do you divide your time when you’re busy and there never seems to be enough time? In this episode, Jess and Brandon share their personal responses to the questions in the “Talking About Time Discussion” — questions and reflection prompts for better time management in relationships. You can utilize it with a partner or any other loved one and use these prompt to get started: How much time do you like to spend alone and why? How much time do you want to spend with friends? Why is it important to you to spend time with friends? How much time do you want to spend with your family? Why is time with your family important to you? Are you happy with the time we do spend together - would you like more or less? Would you like to spend our time together differently? What benefits do you attach to spending time apart? What do you see as the greatest impediment to spen

Want more pleasure and passion? How about more mindful connections and a boost in self-esteem? We don’t have all the answers, but we’re sharing a few resolutions and intentions for the new year — for happier relationships all around. "Why Do I Love You Again Exercise" Questions from "The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay", co-authored with Marla Renee Stewart. Tell the story of when we first met? What was the first thing you noticed about me? What songs remind you of our early time together? What first attracted you to me? How have I changed for the better and grown since our early days? What stood out about our first date? Describe our first kiss. What do you remember about our first sleepover Or the first time we had sex? What is an awkward moment that I wouldn't want to re-live but we're able to laugh about now? What was the most memorable or hottest sex we've ever had? And what made it so memorable? Our amazing sponsor Ioba Toys is offering 40% off this month with my discou

This week, we share (and try out!) a simple 3-step exercise to reflect upon 2021 and plan for a happy 2022. Coach Sonia Zarbatany also joins us to talk about our new coaching program and share her tips for better dating and happy marriage. Thank you to our sponsors Adam and Eve. You can get 50% off almost any item + get FREE shipping + some Free goodies too if you use code DRJESS Make the most of your relationships in 2022 with our 30-day program! There is no better investment than an investment in connection. If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not

We’re doing it again! There is almost nothing better than sharing how you feel about your partner, and this “dating profile” gift is a simple, powerful gift that keeps on giving. Jess’ cousin Annabella & her cousin-in-law Denise (Anna’s mom) join us to share this homemade, no-cost, gift: a thoughtful and simple dating profile written for a loved one. Jess also shares one she wrote for her Mom, and Brandon and Jess share one another’s. We encourage you to try this one yourself and let us know how it goes! Huge shout out to our sponsor, AdamAndEve.com — You can get 50% off almost any item + get FREE shipping + some Free goodies too if you use code DRJESS If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough T

How do you know if opening up is right for you? How do you tell your partner that you’re interested in ethical/consensual non-monogamy? What’s the difference between swinging and polyamory? What if you want a different ENM arrangement than your partner (e.g. they want to swing and you want to explore polyamory) Sex Goddess & Erotic Educator Taylor Sparks joins us to share her experience and advice. She is the founder of Organic Loven, the largest BIPOC owned online organic intimacy shop & works to improve sex lives around the world. You can check out her YouTube channel and follow Taylor on her Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter accounts. We're also excited to announce a new program for 2022: 30 Days to Master Your Relationship! 4 Group coaching sessions Week 1: Relational Values & Blueprint Week 2: Emotional & Relational Communication Week 3: Bedroom Mastery Week 4: Re(Ignite) The Spark + Ladies Night Event in Montreal If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit t