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As I've learned how to make decisions with God, I've also learned how to let go of others' expectations. This is something a lot of people misunderstand. Letting go of others' expectations is not a free pass to live in rebellion. It's an opportunity to live in obedience. The motivation is very different. Remember that the people of your past are not your limitations. So, allow them to be honored by the growth that you're going through...which should lead to a healthier, better you. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

People's offense is often made manifest or expressed through their accusations. It may have nothing to do with you but you might be accused because you've triggered something in them that they're going through healing in. Listen to this short episode to learn what you can do. Visit the site for more information about our monthly membership (tjloeffler.com). See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This clip comes from our latest mini-workshop called "Peace Made Practical". Now available for purchase on the site (tjloeffler.com). Take the guessing out of how to have more peace and as you're intentionally listening just ask God what decisions you're making that He might be highlighting for re-evaluation. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

 There are two truths to the "victim mentality". We're all born as victims. And not everyone will realize it. Listen to this short episode to learn what you can do about it. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you've found success but feel the "tug" of "inner conflict", this short episode can help you. Remember this season is all about intentional listening - so - at the end just give yourself some time to allow the quiet to sink in. Pause and reflect about how this might connect to your story. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you ever thought about what you're coming into agreement with in your daily conversations? Learn how to break the power of lies --- and why it's important. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Agreements are reflections of our beliefs. But we're not always aware how those beliefs are impacting us physically. For example, did you know that when we're driven by fear we're actually operating out of a survival instinct that narrows our focus and therefore prevents us from seeing opportunity? Something to chew on. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We're imperfect people. So how can you have authentic confidence if you know you'll inevitably fail? For me, the key to authentic confidence comes from finding strength in my weakness. And seeing how God is still faithful to help and strengthen me.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you ever wondered why you're stuck in unhealthy patterns? This short clip will explain a new perspective. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We often make the mistake of thinking that more confidence comes from more "doing". But authentic confidence starts at the foundation of who we choose to be --- in our character. God values our character because He knows it's the foundation. Are there specific ways of thinking or behaving God wants you to change? Think about it. Ask Him. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This new season is all about what you can "absorb", not what you can "consume". If you've ever been "afraid of the unknown", this episode has a powerful truth waiting for you. The unknown existed well before COVID. People want to blame the pandemic. But the pandemic just revealed the truth that existed well before it. Instead of living in fear of the unknown, what if you woke up each day valuing the gift of being present? Would it change any decisions? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Don't change who you are...but maybe you need to change who you are. Learn the difference between who God designed you to be and your reality. And get the right mindset you need to feel empowered to make those changes immediately. In this episode you'll learn about what identity practically means, and you'll leave with a new perspective about "how to stay true"...in a world that wants to do nothing but change you. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Even if you're already naturally great at relationships, this episode as something for you. I'm drawing out lessons from some practical stories to help you cultivate better relationships in your life - daily. Stay until the end to learn about an often overlooked idea regarding roles and responsibilities, relational duality, and a few other important things to help you stay healthy as you grow. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Getting raw and real here. My goal is for you to get a new perspective on what the healing journey can look like. You'll learn about the culture of honor vs. manners, the dysfunction that can exist in relationships through upbringing, relational rupturing and how that ended.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode will transform your relationships. Relationships are never meant to be based on false / misguided loyalty or obligation. If you've experienced any kind of toxic relationships (work, church, family, friends, and love life), this episode is for you. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Agreement is the foundation to any relationship. In this episode we're diving into the more fundamental agreements like, "Who or what do you give authority to?" The answer to this question is what's going to govern your decisions - which will ultimately impact your relationships. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What does it mean to be healthy in relationships? You don't have to have something be immediately or obviously "wrong" in your relationships to work on improving them. In this episode we're going to go deeper --- diving into the idea of "healing" and how that even impacts how we perceive what other people say. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you evaluating your own relationships right now? Learn how to have healthy relationships through growing in your awareness about dysfunction that be hiding in your existing relationships. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sometimes the other person doesn’t know what they need. Sometimes they’re in so much pain they might not even be thinking clearly. So what do you do? Do you choose to lean in or let them be? If you’ve been in an up and down relationship, how do you know when the other person is ready? Join this honest, unscripted, zero hype conversation with my wife Savannah to hear some lessons we’ve discovered on our journey. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You may choose to be with someone totally different than your preconceived ideas of what you expected. Join this honest, unscripted, zero hype conversation with my wife Savannah. We’re authentically sharing the perspective we’ve gained from reconciling major differences in education, faith, family, upbringing, communication style...among others. Can you really overcome this? Yes. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.