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This week Woody takes a walk into the amateur porn world. We speak with J. of Desperate Amateurs, a porn site with a difference, reality! J. got tired of watching adult videos that lacked sensuality. He says, “I like to think that I treat the ladies with respect and encourage them to really enjoy themselves. I think all women are beautiful and are very protective of my girls.” This site has been around in one form or another since 2005 and had gone through an array of technology challenges. Now high def video rules the internet and Desperate Amateurs has been leading the pack. This subscription site gives you a preview of the ‘girl next door’ and they tell why they want to be on ‘film’. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/319---desperate-amateurs--.html

This week Woody hops on the rollercoaster named SelinaMinx! Take a half hour wild ride and see where this LA ProDomme can take us. Here is what she has to say… "I've been in the BDSM lifestyle for as long as it's been legal. I definitely feel like I was born kinky. After a long time only able to explore BDSM through literature I finally turned 18 and gained access to the leather scene in Los Angeles. I plunged headlong into the lifestyle in the mid 90s, and had a helluva ride before deciding to ‘go pro' in 2002. Since then I have amassed a few accomplishments: ‘The Wickedest Witch in the West’ - Penthouse Magazine Nov. 2014. Featured on HBO, Penthouse magazine, E! Entertainment television, New Witch Magazine, G4 awards and Reason Magazine. Sex educator for over 17 years, teaching at various colleges and conferences on the subjects of negotiation, human sexuality, evolutionary biology and tantra.” Selina has been a professional Dominatrix for 15 years and 22 years experience in “the BDSM lifestyle.” Witch by

What is a modern-day witch? We found this lovely witch on the west coast of Canada and talked about her bewitching ways…"My witching, my comedy, and speaking, my dancing, my very presence here are basically all about using my voice, which has been suppressed (or attempted anyway) for much of my life. They all eventually tie into each other.” Torch has been a stripper, married an evangelist, performed on the comedy stage and runs a successful business where she gives others a voice. The alluring magic she casts is sexual, in a very teasing way. One can’t look away from this striking 51-year-old spell caster. Again rediscovering herself a couple of years ago, she has embraced kink and what it has to offer her and the people around her. In this show, we play a fun clip from her Fetlife page that is a public service announcement for sluts. She says “I’m into my rediscovering my spiritual life and sex life as well as my dancing.” https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/317---torch-the-witchwhat.html

Frolicon is the unique juxtaposition of the geek and kink worlds celebrated in glorious fashion in the heart of downtown Atlanta. Each Spring we celebrate our unique sense of fun and frivolity with 2000 of our closest friends. What’s your poison? We’ve got it all. Kink. Gaming. Burlesque. Music. Costuming. Parties. Lots and lots of parties. This year Danarama will take the main stage Dan has more than two decades of experience a Dominant in the Bondage and S&M lifestyle and 18 years as a professional speaker and teacher on bondage and alternative sexuality skills. In addition to presenting his own diverse range of live workshops at conferences around the world, he is co-founder of the Two Knotty Boys rope bondage instruction duo (see our 12-year video), a co-author of two best-selling rope bondage books and creator/co-creator of numerous free bondage tutorials on video. (For much more, go to the KinkyCast.com show page...) https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/316---frolicon-april-30-to.html

Our good friend of the cast, Unicorn Husbandry put me in touch with this week’s guest, for that, I’m eternally grateful. I spoke with WyMoBuckaroo on the phone for, well a couple of hours, because I found him so interesting. I felt he was a cross between Will Rogers and Mark Twain. As our guest aged he was like a magnet for life’s philosophy. He is a prolific writer and just perusing his Fetlife archive will entertain for hours. In his own words, here is what Buckaroo thinks… Woody If brains were leather, some folks couldn’t saddle a June bug! Dumber ‘n fried popsicles! Just yer average, curmudgeonly, cowboy. Lover of ropes, spurs, quirts, piggin' strings, hogties, mind fuckery, and general kinky shit. I'm as kinky as a Dollar Store garden hose! I value character above all things. Walking the talk. Keeping my word. Being real. Being true. Being honest in word and deed. Being authentic. Always looking to overcome. Never giving up. Learning humility, transparency, vulnerability. What good is a 10-gallon ha

This week we take our listeners to San Francisco to chat with “The Voice”. A prolific writer on Fetlife and other sites, we found a few subjects of interest. Today’s cast starts with ‘Ownership’, a controversial topic that our guest explains. The Voice is a kinky writer and veteran BDSM educator. He teaches on a wide range of subjects including orgasm response training, D/s protocol, kinky role play, rough body play. He is an active writer on Fetlife and has taught at venues like Dark Odyssey, The Citadel, and Portland’s Close In Munch and is a regular at Kink.com. He is a 17 year 24/7 TPE Dominant who is committed to building intimate protocol based relationship and helping new kinky people learn how to develop their Dominance and submission. The Voice brings both fun and strictness to a well honed D/s practice. He is an enthusiastic trainer of world class sluts and evil sadists! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/314---the-voice-on-ownershi.html

As we celebrate entering our 7th year, we invited two people to join Woody in the celebration. First, you will hear the voice of a cast member that has been with the cast from the first episode. Touchy is our editor. Why edit, you might ask? The cast is made up of non-broadcast-professionals that still care enough to bring you a broadcast quality product. Touchy’s seldom-heard voice talks about some of the challenges of producing a product you can enjoy. Our main guest is an old friend that always has something to say. Nookie of NookieNots joins us for a fun talk about Dating Kinky. DatingKinky.com is built by kinksters for kinksters, poly, queer, trans folk, and anyone not-quite-vanilla—and it’s FREE. We're putting the finishing touches on our first official non-prototype release now, and we're testing with 45,000 kinksters already signed up. Join us for our Grand "Launch Again," and check out our amazing kinky educational library! https://datingkinky.com https://fetlife.com/users/50648 https://www.kin

Lew says… I'm a bondage loving hetero guy who loves - besides bondage - high heels, ballgags, beautiful women, beautiful people, like-minded people, affection, honesty, having fun, creating/inventing, food, traveling, consensually kidnapping girls, occasional 420, reading, anything outdoors, shooting (both pictures and guns), passionate people, Game of Thrones, cooking (I'm pretty good at it too!), playing pool and ping pong and living life to the fullest....when I feel like it..lol. And not necessarily in that order. Lew’s web pages are listed below and link to the LewBari Store for all your rope needs. Check out the beautiful art of rope on his fet page and Lew Tube channel. Follow this link to the KinkyCast show page…
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We ran into Master Aaron’s fet page and saw a newspaper clipping, “Club’s bondage show spurs chain reaction”(click here to see the clipping). Ok, you have my interest. What’s going on? It seems Aaron has been staring thing up since 1996 in Southern California and Vaga$. He puts on bondage shows and is very active in the porn business. Master Arron has been doing live bondage & fetish show in the 805 (area code) & Los Angeles and Las Vegas since 1996 and I have been in over 39 Adult videos so he does know his shit about the Adult Industry. A Pro Dom & lifestyler and live of his days training subs/slaves in the art of BDSM & Kink. His dungeon is open for BDSM training sessions. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/311---master-aaron---a-bit.html

For the second show of the new year, we reach way down to New Zealand to find Ray Ray, a short time gang bang queen. Why short term? As you listen to this podcast, Ray Ray is on her way back to the USA. Listen as she lays out the ganging scene in a place where most of us know nothing about New Zealand’s brand of kinkyory. Ray Ray says, “I like the gang bang - woman - empowerment angle. I want the KinkyCast listeners to know what I get from the experience, how to deal with distractions - 8 and more, dicks yelling “suck me” and getting yourself off.” Hear about this logistical clusterfuck and how she gets it done. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/310---ray-ray---new-zealand.html

From Explorations in Being Black and Kinky: I’m Black, male and I’m kinky. Look at that statement, 6 words. Read it again. The words are simple, yet there is a density to that statement that is seldom explored. I’ve spent much of my life disconnected from my Blackness. I’ve been learning, exploring, and coming to self- realizations in the past year and a half that I never knew that I needed. And I’m still on the journey. Some people reading this may have read a post I made nearly a year ago about a poorly named event in my local community. I took a lot of fire for that post, a conglomeration of opinions from friends and associates who were afraid to actually say how they felt about that event’s name. Interestingly, that was before my journey into my Blackness had really begun. I was doing my friends a favor at that time. Why not, I thought. It took me a while to realize something though, the BDSM community is very white. (For more of this writing and part 2, follow the link on the show page, Below.) https://w

Sit a bunch of people around a microphone and the conversation can go in any direction. In the past it was everything you could not talk about at the dining room table. This one is different. We dig a bit deeper into what we think, is kink and what makes us kinky. Questions like: When did you first feel you were kinky? How old were you when it occurred? What was the situation? We covered if any of the panel members were sexually violated by a family member. We got into consent, giving it and revoking it. For the next hour, sit back and follow our crew on a journey through kinky discovery. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/308---what-is-kink---year.html

This week’s guest is, Susan Wright, founder of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. Each year at this time Susan joins us to revisit the year that was. This year we had some impressive improvements in the number of reported sexual assaults. NCSF is the only group fighting for the rights of the BDSM-leather-fetish communities. NCSF helps people who are discriminated against because of their sexuality — when they’re fired from their jobs or arrested for sexual assault for having kinky sex. NCSF also helps groups and businesses when they’re being persecuted by the media or local authorities. NCSF fought successfully to help convince the American Psychiatric Association that kink is not a mental illness, and NCSF is filing Amicus Briefs in military and civilian appeals court to hold prosecutors to the promise in Lawrence v. Texas that moral judgments can’t be a basis for criminalizing consensual sex. Come find out more about what NCSF does for the leather community! (Links on the show page…below!) https:

Chris and Elisha have celebrated more than a decade together as a polyamorous couple in a power exchange dynamic. They live in a 24/7, negotiated authority transfer dynamic and are the Arizona Master/slave 2018 titleholders. They believe continued growth is important to a successful long-term relationship and to that end are continually pushing their own, and each other’s, boundaries. They are both graduate students looking at various sex positive topics. Chris is looking at perceptions of hierarchy and power exchange in long term polyamorous relationships. He is recently divorced from a 23 year marriage and has two teenage boys. Elisha is looking at the intersection of the perceived benefits of yoga and BDSM participation, for example reduced anxiety and depression, connection to the self, and improved body image. She has been married 19 years. Her husband spent the last few years in Florida by the beach, but recently moved back to be closer. She’ll miss the easy vacation spot, but is happy to have him home.

I would describe myself as a bubbly, sweet “girl next door” type with a secret kinky taste. The people in my life would never expect me to have such a freaky side because of how innocent I appear to be when I’m out in public. When I’m not working, you can typically find me hanging out with my cat, Ellie, playing volleyball or doing anything spontaneous. I’m always down for a fun adventure whether it’s sexual or not. :) I make a good FWB because I honestly love socializing, and making people smile. Behind closed doors I like the thought of all different types of sex. I enjoy anything from sensual soft kisses, to non-consensual role playing. My profile says I’m a switch but that only applies to women. I absolutely love dominating a beautiful woman and watching her get fucked. Her pleasure ultimately is mine, and I want it to be all about satisfying her desires. I’ve found that I typically enjoy threesomes the most, with some light bondage. Ultimately I am up for exploring all sorts of kinks, and maybe make some

-PhoenixSoul- is relatively new to the world of BDSM, but in the short time she's been on the scene has discovered a deep love of the lifestyle's ability to fuel her growth addiction. A lifelong commitment to understanding her deeper motivations behind her emotions and behaviors has fueled many of PhoenixSoul's writings. In this episode, she chats with Woody about her discovery of poly relationships, the difference between jealousy and envy and her writing group which dove into the "7 Deadly Sins" for October, which led to a series of hypothetical conversations with her mom. Phoenix' approach to BDSM (and life in general) is "look at what hurts, and why" to deepen self-awareness and growth. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/304---phoenix-soul---poly.html

Hello, I am Debs, also known as The Kink Shrink. I am a 54 yr old female submissive who has been around for 37 years. In this time I have been on and off the scene and certainly practiced privately, not so much this year due to cancer, chemo and radiotherapy. I run workshops about all aspects of kink (especially around the more psychological, relationship, communication aspects etc) regularly; nationally and internationally. I run a monthly workshop at LAM (see links) which is recorded every month and have done for the past 5 years. It was supposed to be a one off, and I am grateful for the queue every month still! Feel free to contact me to ask about my availability for workshops, or to see me as a therapist. I am also a mother of 4 amazing daughters and my family, friends and clients know about my kink. I am practicing therapist in the UK and have a private practice in psychotherapy and counseling. I have over 50,000 hours of experience and see individuals, couples, poly, families etc. face to face o

This week we present a person with some very interesting viewpoints. We would call him a ‘Fetlebrity’, a sadist and a philosopher. Read this text below, to start to understand who this remarkable man really is. "Stop limiting the Freedom. At all. Give your partner no sin to commit and they will never fall from grace. Love them more than you love your own pride. Love them more than you love your insecurities. Love them more than you love the sad back-history you tell yourself has influenced all of your relationships. Simply love them. It is Love with an open hand. Let them rest lightly in your love, free to land or free to fly away no fist clenched around them demanding that they conform to your version of love. When you give your heart, give all of it. Do you want to know when you are enough? Actually enough? It is when you have poured out your soul like water, when you have emptied yourself completely when you have given everything so that there is nothing left. No reservations. Nothing held back no secre

Challenge at the Intersection of Race and Kink: Racial Discrimination, Fetishization, and Inclusivity Within the BDSM Community Many organizations within the BDSM community make sincere efforts toward inclusivity, but the success of these efforts is inconsistent, with the community achieving integration with respect to gender identity and sexual orientation yet remaining segregated by race. 398 BDSM practitioners completed surveys asking about racial and ethnic discrimination, fetishization, and inclusivity. People of color were 16 times more likely than non-people of color to feel discriminated against at BDSM events and 17 times more likely to feel fetishized. Qualitative results included troubling stories of overt racism and offensive racial slurs, and examples of microaggressions, feelings of isolation, and feelings of being dismissed. Results suggest that organizations can increase inclusivity by understanding the unique costs faced by people of color with an awareness that these costs might be invisibl

For our 300th show, we decided to do something different. Nurse Ratched and Woody took off for San Francisco. The City is Woody’s birth place and holds a lot of memories. We were invited to the Citadel for the Pre-Folsom Party, what a great time we had. We spoke with Robert a DM, Raven the owner and her manager. A wonderful time was had by all. We went to the Folsom Street Fair, a fair like nothing you have ever been to. It was a colorful, kinky, loud, GLBT+ meeting of the minds and souls. We kept hearing the San Francisco Gay Chorus, after we returned to home base saw the new documentary called, Gay Chorus Deep South. This movie gives a view to the prejudice Southern States that is still hard to watch. The 300 strong chorus toured the south bring a message on love and unity and yes, many got it, but some will never change. We have included the audio of the movie trailer to give you an idea of what happened. Follow the links to see the trailer and check out the locations where the movie is being sh