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#338 - AsianHotWife4Fun This just about says it all! Woody had a chance to talk candidly with this Asian Hotwife last week, here is what he learned… Being a Hotwife is a huge turn-on for her husband. He fantasizes about what other guys will do with his wife and wants to hear about the experience AND see pictures! When she comes home from a date, he wants seconds, this keeps this Hotwife busy. She is a lovely, petite Asian woman with an eye for a fun cock. One-on-one, threesoms, gang bangs, they are all on the table. Some times hubby will watch, sometimes he will play, but he always wants to see video of his Hotwife in action. We learned how this dynamic works and how an open, loving, sexually free relationship not only works, it works well. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/338---asianhotwife4fun-this.html

Social media assholes, that is. Have you engaged with your social media ‘friends’ and been push up against a visual fence and have to fight it out? We say opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. How is kinky social different from vanilla social? Ferrett and Woody go down this volatile road to decode what’s going on. Here is the bottom line; the media companies are engaging you to spend time on their sites to drive ad revenue. What is social media ‘political correctness’? Do we care? All these and more in this episode! Ferrett is an author and avid fetlebrity. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/337---ferrett-on-socializin.html

Say what? Ok so Woody and Rory get into a conversation and we agreed to talk about the mind fuck. Well, we tried to talk about the mind fuck… and everything else around it. Think about it, is an intense orgasm similar to a drugged mind trip? Sure it is! A full body orgasm is powered be brain drugs we produce naturally. That’s why the experiences are similar. The conversation went off the rails several times as we try to shine a light on the all mighty, mind fuck! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/336-a-tangential-journey.html

Here at the KinkyCast, we get a lot of mail from listeners asking advice about play safety, relationships, and wanting to know more about the guests on the show. This week we ask two of the guests to fill in some details asked by listener mail. We start with Alicia Love - BloodIsLove2Me on Fet. Alicia is quite the exhibitionist and enjoys putting on a show with blood as the feature. We talk about safety and answer some direct questions. In the second half we visit with Nookie of NookieNotes and DatingKinky.com. Listeners wanted to know more about how to dive into the dating world, while looking for a kinky potential date. Many of us have stumbled across an attractive person and when we said we were kinky, the vanilla’s freak out! Nookie a long time friend of the cast gives details on how to get into the community, and find a kinky date in your area. Keep the questions coming! We use your input to find guests for the show to answer your deepest inquiry. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/335-

This week we take a wild ride on the basic emotions. This week's guest, a life lone educator, with an emphasis on social interaction. As M-20 would say… "I am an Alpha Female. I know what I want, I know what to do and I'm very good at it. Address me with my formal name, Mistress. I am a passionate, loving, caring, and nurturing mistress. During the scene, I am firm and strict. I am interested in local straight men as playmates as well as CD/TV. I would like to have service slaves. I am not looking for a man who wants to learn how to be submissive.” https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/334---mistress-m-20-on-the.html

This week's guest, Risley Addix or Daniel as we know him, has been doing classes about fetishes specializing in feet, shoes, boots, armpit and leather; submission and female dominance. He started as a submissive fetishist but now would consider himself as a fetishist-switch, who can find his completely inner self as a dog or a horse. Interested in personal relationships, and deepening his knowledge about the historical, psychological, evolutionary and anthropological-religious background of fetishes and BDSM. Since he is extremely instinctive and always hunting, I had to change my orientation to Primal predator. The beast needs tamers and he is constantly seeking. For info about HunCon, go to the show page. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/333---risley-addix---hungar.html

Sweat the small stuff? We’ve always been told to sweat the big stuff. Any type of interpersonal relationship is more like cracking a safe than blowing up a bridge. The small stuff is the things that bring a smile to your significant other, and give them the feeling that you really care. Our guest this week, like all kittens, Uni_Kitty likes to watch - and she is a keen observer of human interactions — kinky, vanilla, etc — all in an attempt to develop a relationship philosophy that jives harmoniously with human nature. She is a polyamorist and a kinkster who lives, works and plays with her poly group. Her life as a poly and kinky kitten can be ridiculous, and she loves to share stories of her exploits! Her full musings can be found on the show page.
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(Show link is at the bottom of the text) Today’s trio has been on the gay leather scene from practically it’s beginning. What was being gay in the sixties like? Guy Baldwin tells it like it was being 18 and kicked out of his home for being a homosexual. Guy tells how the WW2 veteran community took him in and taught him what a new family could be. Hardy Haberman in Dallas tells of bars that would warn gay patrons that the vice squad was about to raid and men had to find a female dance partner or risk going to jail. Race Bannon tells of Chicago and the famous gay bars that formed the basis of gay community. Race is an activist in San Francisco now and advises the city council on gay rights. Join us for a two hour tour of how human rights were violated and gay rights didn’t even exist. Three legends of the gay community in the United States tell it like it was, then and now. These are recordings from years back and some on the past timely events were edited out. The story that is told is so important t

Today we have two red hot sirens. Sybil Holiday and Selina Minx. Thirty years apart and so together. This intimate conversation between professional dominants was magic as they took over the conversation telling stories of the trade. With Sybil’s 50 years in professional BDSM, she has seen it all. She is very close to workers in San Francisco and current on how the kinkster wants BDSM delivered to them today. Selina Minx is an accomplished Pro in the Los Angeles area and trying to deal with a very personal business that has stopped due to the Coronavirus She and Sybil talk about how to make a living in these tumultuous times. Sit back and see how Woody was a voyeur to this conversation. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/330---sybil-holiday--selina.html

This week we caught a missed connection. What? A month ago, we invited Reiver Scott to join our European social club recording to have a look out the window all around Europe. Reiver is in Scotland and they think very differently than the English. Reiver couldn’t make the show due to a family emergency. All is well now so we visited her to see what's going with this busy author in Scotland. At the beginning of her career, she was a contributor of short stories with a kink, to other anthologies, now she has her first book our with her name on it, Corinthian and Other Stories. The book starts off with six “Shameful Short Stories” that builds up to 16 chapters of “Corinthian”. Join us for a ride to Scottland’s largest city for a visit with Reiver Scott! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/329---reiver-scott---author.html

Have you ever wondered if you were the only one that ____________? Fill in the blank with your very own personal affliction that falls into the area called mental health. How do I know what would go in the blank? Check out our two shows this week and our guests will guide along a path of help groups and observations of what is going on in the minds of other Kinksters. Some that come to mind are, PTSD, dyslexia, ADHD, anxiety, depression, panic, phobias, OCD, bipolar, dysthymia, eating disorders and many more. Some Kinksters realized some of these disorders after an intense play session. We have seen PTSD after a consent violation. In episode #328 AlphaKat says "More Than Just A Fantasy (MTJAF) is a nationwide movement aimed at raising awareness of mental illnesses and associated stigmas, and eradicating barriers to mental health within the Leather and BDSM Communities. MTJAF provides intensives, community building opportunities, consultations, monthly discussion groups, and resources through trigger

Have you ever wondered if you were the only one that ____________? Fill in the blank with your very own personal affliction that falls into the area called mental health. How do I know what would go in the blank? Check out our two shows this week and our guests will guide along a path of help groups and observations of what is going on in the minds of other Kinksters. Some that come to mind are, PTSD, dyslexia, ADHD, anxiety, depression, panic, phobias, OCD, bipolar, dysthymia, eating disorders and many more. Some Kinksters realized some of these disorders after an intense play session. We have seen PTSD after a consent violation. In episode #327 “Silkys_kitten is a 40-something non-binary slave collared to Mama_silky. They find relief in kink from the responsibilities of their vanilla career as a mental health clinician. They became involved in kink a few years ago, in middle age. They’re into impact play, fire cupping, needle play, erotic hypnosis, and enthusiastically discovering more kinks and typ

Rachel Kramer Bussel, “arguably one of the most influential names in erotica” (Bellesa.com) has edited a new anthology released on March 10, 2020, through Cleis Press: BEST BONDAGE EROTICA OF THE YEAR, VOLUME 1. Rachel holds a BA in women's studies and political science from UC Berkeley and teaches erotica writing workshops around the country. She writes widely about feminism and sex and she has contributed articles to Time, Dame, and many others. Imagine… A cameraman puts a TV anchor on display in a whole new way… Two NASA officials wage an interstellar battle between protocol and desire, and one is taken captive… A gender-bending bounty hunter keeps his bounty hostage for more than just the monetary reward… Two warring neighbors discover that bondage can be a powerful negotiating tool… “Merlin” and the “Lady of the Lake” invoke the magic of the woods to fuel their fiery passions… Best Bondage Erotica of the Year is back with erotica maven and award-winning editor Rachel Kramer Bussel compiling the most scin

This week we moved our focus to what’s happening in the USA. From California, to Texas, to Denver, to Chicago, to Detroit, to Kentucky, and back home to Tennessee, we spoke with ministers on the front lines and those affected by Covid19. Are we stir crazy yet? Some of us are getting a bit shack wacky, while others are working double shifts. Hospitals and going bankrupt, first responders are getting sick and now the administration is opening up the country. Hear some new ideas about what can happen in the economy and how new players to get scans can get their kink on. Poly families are separated and we are not sure when we can play as couples, let alone party in groups, like we used to. Adjusting our expectations to the new normal. Does consent now mean “May I come in the room?” Let alone asking for a hug or more. This episode gets real when we talk to nurses on the front line and watching bodies pile up. There are tearful moments and there are true connections between touch-deprived souls they just ne

Recorded as the Coronavirus was just getting major coverage in the USA. Our guest, Travis Wilson has seen most all of the kinky lifestyle. Travis had a long professional career as an attorney. Beginning in 1972, Travis has been in the Leather/BDSM lifestyle. He was one of the founders of Houston’s PEP, and was Chairman of that organization for many years. He was a founder of the Houston S&M Ball, and was Chairman or Co-Chair of that BDSM/Leather event for the first eight Balls, helping to make it an internationally known and respected Fetish event. Travis has been a presenter at Leather/BDSM events for many years, presenting at such events (many of them multiple times) as Washington D.C.’s Black Rose, Beat me in St. Louis, Oklahoma’s Tribal Fire, Oklahoma’s Leather and Lace, Chicago’s Sinsations in Leather and Kinky Kollege, and many more, on the show page. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/324---travis-wilson---long.html

The KinkyCast Social Club takes a look around Europe. We have panelists in England, Switzerland, Italy and Hungry. We are learning that people are feeling social shut-in as the norm across the world. What surprised us was the different ways the governments are stepping up, or not to take care of their citizenry. We are seeing civil rights are being trampled in the name of a national emergency. Are we going a bit stir crazy? Shackwacky? We hear from a newbie that was just starting her kinky journey when we all got locked down. Join us for the nest hour and hear a European view on coping in a time of social disruption. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/323---european-edition--.html

You have heard about Rainbow Kitten before. She was the top listened show on the KinkyCast back in early 2019, Episode #260. Then in late 2019, we had Rainbow Kitten’s hubby and philosopher, Unicorn Husbandry, Episode #302. Today we have them together, talking about being slutty, poly and raising a family in the great midwest of the United States. We do a deep dive into the lives of two very busy people with jobs and homeschooling. This show was recorded before the Coronavirus was a pandemic and social distancing was not required, please give it a pass in the different world it was in back then. They were part of our “Being Social in a Time of Social Distancing” panel where we heard from 10 friends around the world. To hear an update on the couple listen to last week’s show #321 and hear what has changed. This page was removed last year do to a community outing. You can find out what happened in the 2020 Year End Show. Rainbow Kitten and Unicorn Husbandry live in Nebraska. Check out their story here.

How’s your social life? Hmmm, me too. After we checked in with our social panel from around the world and got an idea of what they saw out their windows, we asked them about their social life. It seems that many of us have the same problems being shut-ins. If you are in perfect health you have a bit more freedom, if you and your playmate accept the risk. For anyone that is a bit health compromised, its lock ‘em up. How do we cope with boredom and binge-watching? Try to mix it up online, video chat with your squeeze, write a fascinating post on social media or write a love letter. So many possibilities, so much time. We gathered 10 of our friends from around the world to explore the similarities and differences in our lives. We learned just by listening to one another that we are not the only ones that feel this way. Hearing about friends helping strangers gives you the feeling that all will be right in this world, eventually. Being kinky and homebound is not a bad thing. You just need to separate yours

Things get serious as Woody talks to LA’s Amy Taylor. As changing times with the Coronavirus, change the face of sex work from casual dungeon play, to club dancers, and the girl on the corner. Amy is a sex worker, pilot, model, and an overachiever. She has been on the cover of Playboy, FHM and Maxim, inside Sports Illustrated, GQ and Esquire, written for Consumer Health Digest, and is thrilled to get to talk to the KinkyCast family. She loves her friends, her family, and her dog. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/320---amy-taylor---sex-work.html

This is happening now! Listen to Dr. Dan a real Infectious Disease doctor in Atlanta. Woody and Doc have a 20 minute discussion of what’s happening today with the Coronavirus. Dr. Dan preparedness document is posted below this week’s shows and on the show page. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/special-edition---dr-dan-on.html