Kinkycast

Hop on for a fun ride on the hypno train! We have all watched a hypnotist do their thing with a willing participant. I have watched group hypnotism at Frolicon and had some of the deepest belly laughs as a dozen people do odd things that seem out of character. This week we bring you Pretty Fantastic, a professional hypnotist that spends his day job helping people with smoking cessation, weight loss, and other vanilla human conditions. In his free time, our guest moves to the darker side and will consensually hypnotize a kinky subject. We have always heard that you won’t do something that you normally would not do in real life, under hypnotism. Find out how this sorts out in this week's episode. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/358---pretty-fantastic--.html

This week we talk with swingers, Dahlia and Rich. How do you keep a swinger group in Covid times? We learned it’s about community. Here is what these community builders have to say. “We look to bring together sexy like-minded people in a safe and fun atmosphere. We specialize in hosting parties that cater to the adventurous who enjoy erotic experiences and expanding their horizons. (You only live once!) https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/357---dahlia--rich-styles--.html

XGoddessSophieX also known as ALittleHunnyBee and her partner Physics are an experienced, polyamorous, and pansexual kink couple who are passionate kink educators and enjoy exploring the overlap between BDSM and spirituality. Between them is an age gap of 20 years, but that hasn't stopped them from wild experiences traveling the country in their kinky school bus throughout this pandemic. The two of them enjoy sharing stories, love, and experience with like-minded kinksters and joined KinkyCast to talk about Sex Magick, Chi, Squirting, and their experiences and adventures together. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/356---bee--physics---on-the.html

This week’s festinating guest is an upcoming social media star! She is a prime example of not letting Covid get you down. Olive Apple lost her job in March, due to closings. When lock-downs happen it’s time to turn on creativity. Armed with an iPhone and watching TikTok for ideas, she started making adult versions on some Tiktok videos she had seen and then turned up the volume! Listen to this entrepreneur turn a lack of work into a full time job with financial reward. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/355---olive-apple---making.html

This weeks guest as a “strong, independent, intelligent woman that enjoys nurturing, exploring, and expanding my submissiveness.” In the last few years she has embraced the role of photographic model. At 47 years old she is getting a late start in modeling, but she is killing it with creative poses that turn heads that have a sense of humor. Erato says, "One of my new found desires is exhibitionism. I very much enjoy sharing the moments of my journey with you all and appreciate thoughtful and respectful comments. While I may flirt a little from time to time, it’s generally not my thing.” https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/354---erato---a-photographe.html

Most of us know who John Baku is, but for those who don’t, John is the brain behind FetLife.com. This is John’s fourth appearance on KinkyCast and we haven’t spoken in a while. As with everyone else, 2020 has brought challenges to running any business. Today John speaks about how he spread out his site creators and operators around the world, before the pandemic. We ask how John and his crew are communicating and keeping the site, not only running but thriving! FetLife is approaching 10 million users and is a force in the sexuality websites. Today Woody and John wander over what’s going on in kinkdom and how players are dealing with the inability to personally socialize. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/353---john-baku---locked.html

In this show we had the opportunity to speak with Mike of Utmost Restraint. Mike’s imagination takes him to the woodshed to build lots of fun toys for adult play. Here are Mike’s own words on how he feels about BDSM… "I love the sight (and the feel!) of bodies molded and shaped by rope. While total immobilization is magnificent, I especially adore ties that leave some freedom of movement - although the more pathetic and ineffectual these remaining movements can be, the better! My happy place is when a body (mine or someone else's) is squirming and writhing, straining against bonds and struggling with exertion in a futile exploration of the constrained movement its present confinement allows.Life moved on, I got busy, and I put my kink interests on the back burner for a few years. Sad! I couldn't continue to do that - I needed some kinky fun back in my life. So, over the last few years I've started revisiting my BDSM interests. I had a blast attending Midori's Rope Dojo, events at the SF Citadel, and I'm look

Stepp's fantasies about BDSM started very early. When he was 6 years old he wanted to tie up the PE teacher. He certainly would have had no idea what to do with her once he had her tied up. So the years passed… Stepp has a passion for suffering, his partners have a passion for suffering, also. "It completes us - It makes our lives whole." He admires and respects all of his partners for having the courage and trusting Him to bring them the places we need to go to really feel complete. A trip to the dungeon is an adventure. It's the job of the Dom to control and guide the experience. Having an intense scene with someone who really suffers, it's like sharing something special. It's really that connection in those most intense moments. The real. The raw. The primal. Building a home dungeon offers the ability for concentrated intense play without interruptions. Converting a basement space for playspace is a great way to pass the time of Covid. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/351---stepp---home-gro

JustRob (He/Him) and JustKaren (She/Her) are from Jacksonville, FL. They have been together and active in the BDSM and Leather communities since 2008. He identifies as a reaction junkie dominant and She identifies as a voyeuristic bisexual switch. They are Leatherfolk, educators, advocates, community organizers, leaders and just all round fun to chat with. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/350---just-rob--just-karen.html

This week we visit with a great human being with a strange monicker, he goes by “Hi There Catsuit”! We have to know how and why he got that name. He is also associated with our friends at DatingKinky.com, and has a new podcast. His new cast is, What Women* (*and other wonderful Humans) Want podcast is a fun and frank discussion about the way people get to know each other from first impressions to building a relationship, whether that relationship is romance, friendship, play partners, or any other kind of relationship. The show is being presented by DatingKinky, a wonderful site founded by my friend NookieNotes which brings together information, education, and connections for non-traditional relationships. As she says, it’s kinky done differently. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/349---hi-there-catsuit-this.html

Join hosts, M3ssalina and Phoenix for this book club turned podcast. They discuss all books and writings related to kink, BDSM, and fetish culture. They offer monthly readings and special episodes with interesting things in the kink world. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/348---from-book-club-to.html

Join the Paddle Priest Lord Jericho, and Kinkycast, as we try to create a few laughs and inspire a bit of early Christmas spirit in the chaos of 2020. Lord Jericho seeks balance in life and to inspire both himself and those around them to become the better versions of themselves each passing day. This week, we seek to balance the darkness dwelling inside your twisted kinky minds. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/347---lord-jericho---dear.html

Here we are in the autumn of 2020 and kinky event promoters and wondering what’s next. How do you plane an event in a time of uncertainty? Master Cecil and Darcy talk about the steps to move forward into the brave new year. Their annual big event is FIRE - Florida Intense Rope Experience, one of the larger rope events in the US. Planning is underway for the 2021 event. We discuss how to get from ‘point unknown’ to point ‘I hope so’. Dealing with booking hotels with contingency plans and dealing with the potential attendance with an unsure populous. We try to get back to a new normal with our friends and community. We delve into the possibilities of online events in the time when we can’t gather in a physical place. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/346---master-cecil-and.html

Impact - what’s that? Impact has been part of the Memphis/Mid-South BDSM community since 1997. It is a 5000-square-foot facility complete with a gigantic main dungeon, three smaller play rooms, a social area separate from the dungeon/play areas, a coat room, a reception area, a small kitchen, and 2 restrooms. St. Andrew's Crosses, whipping posts, spanking benches, beams for suspension bondage play, cages, and a ton of other dungeon furniture are provided. Any cuffs, collars, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, ropes, etc. you will need to bring with you. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/345---gray-from-impact-in.html

Feeling a little locked in? Doing it for yourself is what this show is all about! Slaveara is a DIY kinkster based in Memphis, TN. She’s been a part of the fet community since the moment she turned 18 and has been an active member of the Memphis kink community for a year and a half. When she’s not devouring kinky literature or spending time at her local dungeon, she’s experimenting with different kinds of play on herself. Her adventures in self-topping have included wax, needles, predicament bondage, clamps, impact play, and more. Join us for a view into doing it for yourself! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/344---slaveara---diy-play.html

This week we visit with Pet and Purr, aka: Pet Cimon, in Calgary Canada. Pet is a remarkable woman that has lived several lifetimes in her short 41 years on this earth. Adopted as an infant, here Mom passing at 8 years old, drugged up Dad, on her own at 13. She was sex trafficked, bought and sold, and the list of unstable youth situations formed this wonderful woman. Pet battled here weight most of her life and was forced to “look good” by her captors. Here diet plan was drugs. Fast forward to a person that cares deeply and is a warrior for social justice. She started a group that is all about supporting and empowering women of all sizes. To build each other up and to support each other on our bad days as well. This group will have daily topics and fun challenges. "Let’s come together and build each other up." https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/343---pet-and-purr---a.html

What is being a Hotwife all about? It’s a two-parter… Hot and Wife. In this show, we take you off to Texas to talk with a newly formed Hotwife and how she is honing her skills in this time of social distancing. She was brought into the lifestyle via a swinger husband and quickly ‘came’ up to speed. Just when her new found fetish was getting going, we all locked ourselves in our homes. She needed to figure out safe ways to still meet people and play. She says, “We are looking for everything ranging from a bull to a trans woman, to a girlfriend/boyfriend, that loves the cuckold lifestyle and who loves having fun as much as we do.” We spoke on how unreliable guys were to show up and stick to the agreed plan. She records her exploits to share with hubby. Sounds like fun to me! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/342---cum-whore-wife--.html

As we sit at home trying to get out kinky-on… What do you do when there is no one to tie you up? We asked our friend, Linworth what she would do. She had a list of possibilities. Linworth is a “rope human” with a very creative eye for finding like-minded people to share experiences. Listed in the link below, are a plethora of possibilities to find classes, demo, and social media about rope. This is a great resource for rope newbies to advanced players. Be safe and have fun! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/341---linworth---got-ropeas.html

We first heard from this weeks guest back in 2015, episode #61. We thought we’ed get caught up! Bruisedtonsils is a woman of a certain age, submissive babygirl, living 24/7 in the lifestyle for over ten years. She also performs burlesque and drag in the Knoxville community. Her current project is Gabbing Girl Time, a podcast for women juggling vanilla life and kink. The conversation went to everyones question, “What the hell in going on in the scene?” With play spaces either closed or very limited access, a lot of people are putting their kink on hold. Tune in and see what Bruisedtonsils has to say about this very current subject.

This week Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny return with a reading list for the quiet times we are in. Our two authors have written dozens of books about power dynamics to spirituality. The discussion dives into the 4 books they wrote on having a disability while in a power exchange relationship and how to make it work. This topic is rarely talked about and blows the porn fantasy out of the water, imagine that! Real people, with real problems, who are kinky! Listen in as they offer insights and share their experiences with this important topic as well as talking about keeping it real and maintaining their roles within a power dynamic while living a thoughtful life. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/339---power-exchange--spiri.html