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Ho-Ho-Ho! It’s that time of year when we recap all the things that have affected our sexual freedom. The National Coalition of Sexual Freedom founder, Susan Wright is back for our Christmas tradition. What did you miss this year? There is a bunch of things that could enter into our lives as kinksters. Here are a few… Stealthing, Model Penal Code update, Consent Survey, New Resources, Consent Policy Model for Groups, Diversity Inclusion, Metamour Day, and the Coalition Partner Meeting! All this and an organization that protects your interests and lobbies for governmental change. NCSF is one of the most important allies for people in the alt-sex world. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/413---ncsf-christmas-showho.html

Zane has made a living as a male stripper for over ten years making good money and not having to work a day job just being himself and doing what he loves - performing. He's currently in Hawaii but has performed the majority of his career in the Nashville TN and surrounding areas. He's full of stories and fun times and wisdom gained from years doing things most people know nothing about, and we all can learn from perspectives like his and his fascinating story. Zane can be reached by messaging his FetLife account at the link below, and is available for networking, performance and collaboration! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/412---zane-a-male-stripperz.html

For the nights when you want to spice things up, but can’t decide what to play, there’s a new app that can take the reins and help you lose control. Unleash your inner succubus (or angel) with Halos and Sins — the best game for couples to play together. New and experienced couples alike can let go and let their freak flags fly with Halos and Sins calling the shots. Choose your level of experience and spin the wheel to thrill or torment your partner all night long. In this episode, Halos and Sins creator Jim talks about the inspiration behind the app, how you can get the most out of using it, and why he’s on a mission to help everyone enjoy better, more fulfilling sex. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/411---playing-halos--sins.html

So you really want to try BDSM stuff out but don’t have someone to do it with huh? Enter the wonderful world or Pickup Play! In this case, we will go over how to ask that cute stranger to play, what to include in your negotiations before playing, inclusive and exclusive negotiations and informed consent, the Do’s and Don’ts of pickup play, and a whole lot more! There was a Q&A session at the end of the class to answer any questions that the audience had. https://kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/410---sir-crow---navigating.html

This year at Frolicon, the Subby School hosted an event in the round to discuss what’s on the minds of fellow subbies. Branching from the normal Subby School topics and discussing being an S-type and some of the difficulties in an open forum in which those on the right side of the slash; aka: sub, slave, bottom; can engage in knowledge sharing and discussion. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/409---subby-school---record.html

This week we have Dr. Dan, an actual infectious disease doctor, to lay out the details on COVID in the poly/kink communities. You will hear advice to minimize the risk of acquiring and spreading COVID. Topics include, how to convince the vaccine hesitant people in your life to get vaccinated, how to best test in case of an exposure, what to do if someone gets COVID, and a whole lot more! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/408---dr-dan---takes-on.html

With very few exceptions, everything that we use in the kinky world to help explore our interests started life with a more innocent purpose. This recording of a class offered at Frolicon 2021, will explore the kinky potential of many things you might not imagine could spice up your play! Expect to come away from this with an entirely new perspective on what defines the term ‘adult toy’. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/407---roundfoot---pervertab.html

Dr. Dan is back! Hey, did you know how funny the good doc is? You need to listen, laugh, and learn a few things that will make your life a bit longer. Dr. Dan mixes great information with humor to keep your attention and cover info the is not readily available to non-medical people, like most of us. This is not the “Covid show,” it will post in a few weeks. This show covers infectious issues from STI/STDs to fruit bats. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/406---1-md-and-a-microphone.html

I’m a 19 year old college student who is pretty new to anal, but definitely loves it. I started doing anal only a few months ago and it’s been an amazing change for me. The feeling is so much more intense than regular penetration, and anal is a lot more comfortable for me too. I’m currently continuing my anal progress and working up to bigger toys and am looking to explore new kinky interests. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/405---promisepeach---learni.html

Have you ever heard of the Madonna-Whore Complex? This dichotomy ultimately means that women have to be either pure and ‘virginal’ or sexual and forthcoming. Of course it’s the guys that make the rules. We brought out favorite sociologist back to give some perspective on why women are treated in different ways if they are the wife/mother of their children or their mistress. We live in a patriarchal society and that varies on where you are in the world. Woody and Dr. V get down and dirty in this discussion on the two sides of a woman. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/404---dr-v---the-madonna.html

Sounding has been an amazing adventure into all-new sensations for me. There aren't really words to describe it. I often call it "sensation overload". It has been more erotic and addictive than I ever thought possible. Sounding has also become a passion for me to do and share. Before I started, when I was researching how-to's and safety issues, I was really saddened and frustrated by the lack of information for women. Everything is geared towards men. It is like comparing peaches to bananas when sounding. So I started posting my journey on Fetlife to share all my experiences. The good ones and the mishaps. I have found there is a whole community of women curious and/or doing it. It has been such an added bonus to connect with them and share. I hope more women realize it is not just for men!….. Maybe someone will start making toys just for us, lol.. We have an entire other pleasure zone to explore and enjoy that most people never think about. My advice is to find others and ask questions. You won't find a guid

#402 - Gloria Brame - Trail Blazing Sexuality Author This week we have the return of Gloria Brame, a well-known author about service, relationships, and sexuality. Bio Dr. Gloria Brame found her way into the kink communities in 1984 and began her public activism in 1987 when she founded the first online BDSM support group in the Human Sexuality Forum of Compuserve. A lifestyle Femdom, Gloria remains at the forefront of BDSM education and activism. She was the lead author of Different Loving (1993) the first BDSM-positive book released by a major publisher. You can find all of her books on Amazon. Gloria has dedicated her life to helping people grow and evolve into who they really are by conquering shame, false teachings, and hopelessness. The first Ph.D. candidate in the U.S. to be granted a degree in BDSM/Fetish sex, she joined the American College of Sexologists and opened her sex therapy practice in 2002, focusing on kink, sexual performance, and self-growth. Gloria’s extensive independent research i

I’m Floki, and my partner is Fox. Together we explore a range of sensory practices, with Fox having a particular penchant for pain play. Needle play is a kink I enjoy that meets her proclivities well. I first discovered an interest in Needle Play about five years ago. Since then, I’ve developed a range of techniques and practices that allow us to explore its more artistic forms. These include ways to create and realize designs in ways that minimize risk and maximize symmetry and balance. Recently we’ve started sharing those techniques and practices with others. This has involved showing people how I create templates and select materials. We also demonstrate how Fox prepares a clean, safe environment and takes care of the clean up afterwards. Needle Play brings us a great deal of joy and satisfaction, and we’ve enjoyed the opportunity to discuss it here on KinkyCast. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/401---floki--fox---needles.html

It’s taken almost 8 years to get to episode 400. A lot of water has gone under the bridge since February 2014. Tonight we gathered Miss Leigh, Miss-Tress, Dr. Vanilla Nurse Ratched, and Touchy to discuss shows they like and to give you a feel for the depth of what we offer. We have hosted internationally notable speakers, tons of educational shows, and the shows that our audience like are the kinkster next door type and get their kink on where ever that can. We have compiled a listing of the top 100 plus some honorable mentions, for you to check out, with links to each show! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/400---episode-400---top.html

This week we invited our old friend, Lew Rubens back to the cast to help out on some listener questions. Lew is an experienced rigger and suspension artist, He has a love and passion of bondage that shows in his work. Known mostly for his wild suspensions, Lew joined the public side of BDSM play spring of 2001 and started his first website, and started teaching his unique simple bondage style which he branded as “Lewbari” the other “bari”. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/399---lew-rubens---rope.html

This year Frolicon is serious about all attendees being vaccinated. So we asked our own Nurse Ratched to vaccinate “Franny” the Frolicon mascot. Pam and Dr. Dan lay out what this is all about and what you need to do to protect all your friends. We are expecting a big crowd and need everyone on board. Dr. Dan has enclosed some links to get the point across for you to and share with the hesitant. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/se---frolicon-vaccine-updat.html

Listeners have written in to learn how best to approach getting into Kink and BDSM play. Tonight’s guest has been active in making new players feel at home with all their new found kinks. She has been active in her local community and nationally with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. Tess (pronouns she/her/hers) is an Arizona kinkster with a message of inclusion and advocacy. Tess has been on the Board of Directors for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (Your Rights. Your Privacy. Your Freedom. (ncsfreedom.org) https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/398---are-you-new-to-the.html

MissVye, age 28, from Idaho is a long time polyamorous switch. Growing up in a family who was openly sexual, non monogamous, and kinky it was no surprise that she followed suit. Since age 22, MissVye has practiced polyamory and been involved in local Fetlife and Facebook groups. In fact, she is a co-admin for a local polyamorous group for ages 18-35 on Facebook. Her relationship style is non hierarchical with an emphasis on allowing partners their independence. Kink-wise, MissVye is a switch who varies from babygirl to Mommy, sadist to bottom, and so much more. She currently has two boyfriends and a girlfriend. In her spare time, MissVye likes to be social and host local events, play with her two cats and dog, and paint. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/397---miss-vye---even-more.html

This week Woody speaks with Tom from hardART. Tom says, "I want to make art, damn sexy art. Landscapes, cityscapes and the female form are my base interests artistically, all the better melded into one image with cohesive composition. In my work, I hope you find true art that brightens your soul.” https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/396---tom-from-hardart-on.html

This week Woody speaks with the three founders of Kynk101, a website and podcast. Meet Shadow, DD, and Glass, a truly international effort to help fellow kinksters discover new kinks and how to play. Hop on over to a website that put the ‘Y’ in kink! Here is the website, Kynk101.com to check out the great resources. Educational and reliable information on a broad list of mainstream and edgy fetishes. There are articles, journals and an interesting thing called “Kink in the wild”. Kink at a glance, or KAAG as they call it, let’s you search through their massive robust database and find related fetishes. And listen to DD’s sexy English accent!