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Join Woody and Nurse Ratched for a time travel of our sexual being getting older. For the listeners that think it shrivels up and falls off after a certain age, it doesn’t! Good sex into your seventies, and beyond is a reality and with no end in sight. Let’s be clear, sex is more than intercourse, a lot more. Think of romance, teasing, sex play, BDSM play, edging, oral and then add in full on fucking! Exercise that giant organ, the brain and let it do the work. Sex can improve over your lifetime. If you think you have good sex now, hold on, it gets even better. Open you mind with patience, perseverance, and diligence, sex can get even better. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/394---a-lifetime-of-healthy.html

Kinky Kollege Homecoming 2021- this October 8-10, 2021 - Chicago This week Bruce, the event director, explains the broad selection of classes, culture of consent, and sexual community spirit at this inclusive twice-yearly event. A pansexual kink event at a hotel in Chicago. The Nation’s top Alternative Lifestyle Educators will be at Kinky Kollege offering classes throughout the weekend. 50+ Classes, Vendors, and 15,000 square feet of play space. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/393---badbeast---big-eventk.html

Dr. Jenni is a physicist by day and amature historian of the medical arts by night. She has been engaging in medical play of various forms as a sadomasochistic switch. We discuss the safety considerations of this type of play which often involves exposure to different bodily fluids. We also delve into the mental and emotional aspects of medical fetishes including role-playing, objectification, and humiliation. Dr. Jenni also discusses her motivations for bottoming for medical play including large gauge needles and hook pulls and suspensions. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/392---dr-jenni---medical.html

Laura Millar (AKA: Blind Sexpert) is a blind outspoken disability rights and queer rights advocate who is deeply committed to advancing the field of sexual health promotion for people with disabilities. With Masters degrees in Public Health and Sexuality Studies, Laura conducts research that examines how blind and visually impaired people learn about and navigate the world of dating, sex and intimate relationships. Laura began her work with the goal of empowering people who are blind or visually impaired. Her passion and expertise have expanded to educating people with all types of disabilities, to help them comfortably navigate intimacy and physical relationships. Laura specializes in helping people break through pockets of resistance and navigate shame related to their disability and/or sexuality. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/391---the-blind-sexpertlaur.html

July 15, 2021—The American Law Institute (ALI) has approved the revised Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault, which decriminalizes BDSM activities in connection with sexual penetration, oral sex or sexual contact.Dick Cunningham, NCSF’s Legal Counsel and member of the ALI, says, “The Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault (including unwanted or injurious contact), approved by the prestigious American Law Institute at its June meeting, is a milestone in the law’s understanding of BDSM and a major advance in the treatment of consent as the central element by which sexual contact is to be judged. The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom has been deeply involved in the ALI process for over 6 years and is recognized in the ALI’s report for its many contributions. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/se---susan-wright---ncsf--.html

The Paddle Priest Lord Jericho and Slave Epona Camelot return for part two of the " They Can't Consent / They Can't Kink" series. This series focuses on disassociating, blocking access, and weeding individuals of our local communities and websites who participate or promote pedophilia, child pornography, and zoophilia/beastiality. They violate the principles of consent, a foundation of BDSM and Kink. Part one in episode #377 focused on zoophilia/beastiality. Part two, here, focuses on pedophilia. Steps have been taken to minimize any content that may be triggering to those with histories. https://kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/391---lord-jericho-and.html https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/377---lord-jericho--epona.html

Yoga for Kink is an instructional yoga book. It is broken into three sections: upper body bondage, lower body bondage, and full body bondage. Within each section, there are photos of models tied into various bondage positions. Following that, I provide a list of yoga poses that will help prepare the body to get into those bondage positions – or positions similar to it, along with step by step instructions on getting into the yoga pose. There are photos of each yoga pose, including modifications for bodies who are not yet able to get into the full pose. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/se---slave-elisha---author.html

#389 - Daciana - Uncompromising Quality This week we found Daciana (Dah-Sea-Ah-Nah) on Fet. What piqued our interest was her uncompromising desires to have a lifestyle relationship. “Even though I am currently single, I’m firmly ethically non-monogamous and am at my happiest when I’m in open-polyamorous relationships." She has a big heart that's full of love just ready to be given out, and plenty of emotional energy to go around. “I'd love to have great friendships with my metamours as well. Family unit FTW!

It feels like we have been waiting forever for Frolicon to come around. Canceled last spring due to Covid, canceled later last year because we weren’t quite ready… And now it time! Book your tickets for October 15 to 17, yes, this year, 2021! The Frolicon crew has put together a great time for all and it will be back in Atlanta at our fave hotel, the Sheraton. All the great times, classes, demos, vendors, art, gaming and SO MUCH more. Hotel rooms are available and tickets are on sale, now. Our host Pam introduces us to what’s going on this year. The presenters are still being finalized, so hop in and get booked. We are expecting a big crowd this year and everyone wants to get their kink back on! Check out the pre-show and see you in Atlanta in October. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/se---frolicon-october-15-17.html

#388 - Life in Denver as a Poly Triad The KinkyCast looks for all types of alternative relationships. Today we found a triad in Denver that came together by our changing times of Covid. Meet, Nikki, Minxy, and Jack of the Poly Triad. They are a polyamorous triad that formed a couple of months before the pandemic! The hard work they’ve put into our relationship through our individual and group therapy has been paramount to our success as a triad. "We’ve gone through quite a journey together including starting our own successful OnlyFans account, to traveling together and scuba diving in Honduras. We’ve spent nearly every waking moment together and somehow… We haven’t killed each other yet. This is our journey into the poly life, BDSM, and becoming content creators.” Links here! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/388---life-in-denver-as-a.html

This week Torch the Witch returns to address the word SLUT. Why is this such a big issue with vanillas and the non-kinky? Torch is a Stand-Up Comic in addition to her efforts to be a sexual being. Here is how it unfolds… I started stripping at 18, became a Jesus Freak at 34, and at 49 I got into kinky sex. So basically, my life is a Jesus sandwich on slut bread. With extra mayo. I had many adventures in Stripperland and Jesusland. Fetlife is where my Kinkland adventures manifest. My sexuality has always been tied to my identity.(Read more here)https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/387---torch-the-witch---did.html

Kissing….UGGHHHHHH Ok boys and girls, time to talk about a passion of mine: Kissing. I wrote about kissing before. It was funny that some people got perturbed and called it the least kinky thing ever. Well, I tend to disagree. In this four-part essay, I will write about. Why kissing is the best fucking thing ever. What constitutes a good kiss. Why you are probably doing it wrong. How to get better. Kissing is the basis of sex. Can you have sex without it? Yes, you can have sex without a lot of things. For me, they are intertwined. Because my kink and D/s is sexual, therefore logically follows that I can't have kink or D/s without kissing. Logic!! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/386---ropetigerdaddy---all.html

"Submission takes many forms. Sometimes it’s strict, Gorean protocol. Sometimes it’s complicated “scenes” with rope, fire, wax, and an array of scary looking - particularly to the untrained eye - implements. It’s not always passive, but it’s not always complicated. —- Sometimes it’s just eating a waffle with strawberry jam.” So says Anna, a Kitten searching for home, love, and happiness. She travels the Tarot cycle from the Fool to the Sun to the World— and along the way finds her affinity for strong men, beautiful women and yummy dessert inexorably leads to something more than a relationship. And that the ties that bind are deeper than anything she has been taught before. She travels the full Tarot cycle from the Fool to the Sun only to learn that the most durable binds are ones we create for ourselves. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/se---kitty-st-valentine--.html

Lady Katie one of East Tennessee’s top Femdoms. Since beginning her kink journey and exploring more than a decade ago, she has since became a well known Female Dominant. Her commitment to educating others, to the local community, to her play partners, and private clients care keep people coming back again and again to her. The Sapphire is a 3,500 square foot dungeon located in Knoxville Tennessee that is owned and managed by Lady Katie. This is a Members Only dungeon; however you can receive a guest membership from either a member or attending a few open vanilla events to be vetted, like munches, classes, and etc. (For more info, click here)https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/385---lady-katie---the.html

Imagine a public place for all to learn about the kinky world we know… Our Mission as a non-profit organization is to increase acceptance and understanding of BDSM culture in the public perception. We pursue this with a permanent, publicly accessible facility in the service of society and its development, which procures and preserves material and immaterial testimonies from people and their environment to the cultural object BDSM for the purpose of study, education, encounter and experience, researches, makes known and exhibits. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/384---bdsm-museum-hamburg.html

MksThingsHappin (Makes Things Happen), or Peter is one of Chicago’s own presenters. He has been a part of the Chicago kink scene since 2012, and has a love for many types of play, including impact, needle play, rope, and more. He serves on the presenter selection committee for Kinky Kollege, and is a presenter on rotation for Super Tasty, a local stage cabaret talk show. He has also been a guest moderator for the Power Exchange Roundtables. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/383---mksthingshappin--.html

Details, details, details! As a sighted person Woody takes a lot for granted. This week Woody talks with Alluring Onyx. Why Alluring, listen and find out, you will learn a lot about blind people, and even more about this week’s guest. Onyx is a 28 year old 6’4 cisgender queer and polyamorous Black woman living in Oakland. She is also blind. Curious about how she uses FetLife? Want to be her submissive or Daddy Dom to “take care of her,” because she’s blind? Into sensory deprivation and turned on by the fact that blind people have more heightened senses? Please exit stage left immediately. Any ableism in her inbox will be shut down swiftly. If you are genuinely interested in getting to know Onyx, there will be plenty of time to understand blindness. There is no need to lead in with just your curiosities when there are much more tantalizing things you and Onyx could explore. . . https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/382---alluring-onyx---blind.html

This week Doc V and Woody get down to a vast collection of questions sent in by listeners. Some of the highlights are: Teen sex, STI, Hook Ups, Birth Control, Community, Consent, Safety and more! Doctor Vanilla went to a mid western land grant university and earned a masters in human development and family studies and a masters in sociology. She is a feminist scholar with area of emphasis on the sociology of family as well as family policy. Her current interests include trans rights and racism. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/381---woody--doc-vanilla--.html

Sissification is a kink role when a male submissive takes on a feminine role out of submission. Sissification can be different from being trans or being a cross dresser because the sissy may not identify as a female or wanting to be female. Being a sissy is also often paired with being locked in chastity. Chastity is often required in a Female Domme/male submissive dynamic so that the male sub can give up all control over his sex life and orgasms. Sissy kimee (kimchi-kimee on fetlife) is a submissive sissy who serves a Dominant Female and is locked in chastity as a requirement of his submission. By being locked in chastity, sissy kimee can focus all of his sexual energy and frustration in serving his Domme through domestic service and oral worship. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/380---sissy-kimee---sisifac.html

Sir Ezra identifies as a Polyamorous Pansexual Dominant Sexual Sadist. He specializes in edge play, including fire play, knife play, electroplay, whips and mindfucking. He is the Director of Education at Sanctuary LAX as well as a BDSM Life Coach. His book “Mindfucking Mindfully: a Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and Sadomasochism” is available at Amazon.com after May 21st. (Click here for more info. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/379---sir-ezra---mind-fucke.html)