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Who are you when control is gone? Who am I without my job? Control and being "armored up" are illusions. In this episode, Dave Glaser shares a personal journey through job loss and its impact on an Enneagram 8. He explores themes of vulnerability, control, identity, and growth during challenging seasons, offering insights and practical advice for navigating uncertainty. Key Themes Impact of job loss on identity and control Pitfalls of overcompensation in Enneagram 8s The importance of vulnerability and asking for help Growth through self-awareness and emotional depth Takeaways Vulnerability is the key to growth, not weakness. Control and armor are illusions that hinder progress. Separating identity from circumstances fosters resilience. Authentic strength includes awareness, flexibility, and connection. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Identity and Job Loss 04:37 The Pitfalls of Job Loss for Enneagram Eights 09:02 Vulnerability and the Journey of Self-Discovery 14:07 Recalibration and Moving Forward  

In this episode, Dave Glaser explores how different Enneagram types run from their patterns through movement, control, and comfort, offering insights and practical challenges to foster self-awareness and growth. Key  topics Enneagram types 7, 8, and 9 and their patterns of avoidance The role of movement, control, and comfort in self-sabotage Practical challenges to build consistency and awareness Takeaways Type 7s stay busy to avoid discomfort but need to stay committed longer. Type 8s use control to resist vulnerability but should focus on sustainable effort. Type 9s avoid conflict by disconnecting, and small actions can create momentum. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Patterns and Enneagram Types 01:18 Type Seven: The Enthusiast's Avoidance Patterns 03:25 Type Eight: The Challenger's Resistance to Vulnerability 06:10 Type Nine: The Peacemaker's Disengagement from Self 09:00 Conclusion: Awareness and Action Across All Types    

In this compelling interview, Traver Boehm joins Dave to discuss the importance of accountability, morality, and conscious masculinity in addressing societal issues like child trafficking, sexual misconduct, and personal growth. He shares insights on power dynamics, the role of men's groups, and how men can live with integrity and responsibility. If you're struggling with life's issues and are seeking support, connect with Traver directly at manuncivlized.com or on Instagram @traverboehm Key  Topics The importance of speaking out on societal issues The role of men's groups in accountability Understanding power dynamics and morality Addressing child trafficking and sexual misconduct Living with integrity and responsibility Chapters 00:00 Reconnecting After Six Years 01:25 Taking a Stand Against Injustice 05:51 The Political Nature of Abuse 11:26 Self-Reflection and Accountability 18:47 Civilization vs. Uncivilization 32:06 Understanding Power Dynamics 32:34 The Nature of Power 35:17 Understanding Power Dynamic

In this episode, Dave Glaser explores the deep-rooted patterns that sabotage health and personal growth, focusing on the Enneagram types four, five, and six. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and actionable steps to build trust and consistency in your health journey. Each Enneagram type has unique needs and benefits from tailored approaches to nutrition and training, leading to improved health and emotional well-being. If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at riseup@fitlifechampions.com for help with any questions you may have. What you'll get is a workout program you can use in any gym, anywher or even your home gym/workout area with body weight exercises.  Plus, you will get a meal prep challenge workshop that will fit your desire for healthy recipes that save you time and money by cooking once or twice per week. Key Topics Enneagram types 4, 5, and 6 and their sabotage patterns The importance of self-trust and consistency in health Practical

In this episode, Dave Glaser explores how the nine Enneagram types unconsciously sabotage their weight loss journeys. He provides practical insights into each type's core fears, sabotaging patterns, and personalized strategies for healthier habits, emphasizing self-awareness and self-compassion. Each Enneagram type has unique needs and benefits from tailored approaches to nutrition and training, leading to improved health and emotional well-being. If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at riseup@fitlifechampions.com for help with any questions you may have. What you'll get is a workout program you can use in any gym, anywher or even your home gym/workout area with body weight exercises.  Plus, you will get a meal prep challenge workshop that will fit your desire for healthy recipes that save you time and money by cooking once or twice per week. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Self-Awareness and Patterns 02:52 Understanding the Enneagram and Its Impact 05:47 Ty

In this episode of the Challenger Podcast, Dave Glaser explores the intersection of fitness, nutrition, and self-awareness through the lens of the Enneagram. He discusses how aligning these elements can lead to significant physical and mental transformations, emphasizing that true results come from understanding oneself rather than following external blueprints. Each Enneagram type has unique needs and benefits from tailored approaches to nutrition and training, leading to improved health and emotional well-being. If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at riseup@fitlifechampions.com for help with any questions you may have. What you'll get is a workout program you can use in any gym, anywher or even your home gym/workout area with body weight exercises.  Plus, you will get a meal prep challenge workshop that will fit your desire for healthy recipes that save you time and money by cooking once or twice per week. Takeaways Self-awareness is the foundation of ch

In this episode, Dave Glaser discusses the crucial role of self-awareness in achieving weight loss goals, emphasizing that the real challenge lies not in knowing what to do, but in understanding the underlying patterns that hinder progress. He explores how each Enneagram type can gain insights into their behaviors and emotional triggers, ultimately leading to healthier habits and sustainable weight loss. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing and breaking negative patterns, fostering a proactive approach to personal growth and fitness. If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at riseup@fitlifechampions.com for help with any questions you may have. Takeaways You don't fail at weight loss because you don't know what to do. Self-awareness helps you adjust instead of quit. Type ones need to notice their perfectionism. Neglecting yourself as a type two isn't generosity. Type threes attach their worth to outcomes. Type fours romanticize struggle an

In this episode of the Challenger podcast, Dave Glaser discusses the importance of habits in achieving fitness and nutrition goals, particularly through the lens of the Enneagram personality types. He emphasizes that lasting change comes from understanding how habits work, rather than relying solely on willpower. Each Enneagram type is provided with tailored habits that can help them build a sustainable lifestyle, along with cues, routines, rewards, and anchor phrases to reinforce these habits. The episode concludes with key takeaways from Charles Duhigg's 'The Power of Habit', highlighting the significance of systems over goals in personal development. If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at riseup@fitlifechampions.com for help with any questions you may have. Takeaways Workouts and meals won't change your life; habits will. Lasting change comes from understanding how habits work. Type Ones should focus on scheduled check-ins, not self-judgment. Type Twos

In this episode, Dave Glaser delves into the concept of limiting beliefs that hinder personal growth, particularly in fitness and nutrition. He explores how different Enneagram types have unique narratives that affect their ability to achieve their goals. By identifying these beliefs, listeners can begin to dismantle them and take actionable steps towards their fitness aspirations. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and the need to confront and name these beliefs to regain control over one's journey.   If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at riseup@fitlifechampions.com for help with any questions you may have. Takeaways Once you know the right workout, it's about belief. Every Enneagram type has a core story that limits them. Type 1s stall due to high standards, not lack of discipline. Type 2s neglect their needs, thinking they must prioritize others. Type 3s equate effort with identity, risking burnout. Type 4s struggle with consisten

In this episode, Dave Glaser explores the intersection of nutrition and the Enneagram personality types, providing tailored dietary strategies for each type. He emphasizes that successful weight loss is not solely about willpower but about aligning nutrition plans with individual personality traits. Each Enneagram type has unique needs and preferences that can significantly impact their ability to adhere to a nutrition plan. By understanding these differences, individuals can choose strategies that resonate with their personality, leading to more sustainable and effective weight loss outcomes.  If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at riseup@fitlifechampions.com for help with any questions you may have. Takeaways Weight loss isn't about willpower; it's about personality alignment. Type Ones thrive on structured, rule-based nutrition plans. Type Twos benefit from accountability and relationship support. Type Threes need results-driven, metric-based approache

In this episode of the Challenger Podcast, host Dave Glaser dives into the intersection of fitness and personality by exploring how different Enneagram types can find the best workout routines tailored to their unique motivations and characteristics. He emphasizes that the most effective fitness plan is not necessarily the most popular or scientifically optimal one, but rather the one that individuals can commit to consistently. Throughout the episode, Glaser breaks down the fitness preferences for each of the nine Enneagram types, offering insights into what styles resonate best with their personalities and how they can avoid common pitfalls associated with their type. Starting with Type One, the Reformer, who thrives on structure and measurable progress, Glaser moves through each type, detailing the ideal fitness styles for Helpers, Achievers, Individualists, Investigators, Loyalists, Enthusiasts, Challengers, and Peacemakers. He provides practical advice on what to watch out for, such as overtraining for T

In this episode, Dave Glaser explores the complexities of Enneagram Type Seven, known as the Enthusiast. He discusses their vibrant energy, optimism, and the challenges they face in relationships, including their fear of commitment and tendency to avoid pain. The conversation highlights the importance of emotional resilience and offers advice for both Sevens and their partners to foster healthier relationships. Takeaways Sevens bring energy, adventure, and optimism to relationships. They have a deep fear of pain and limitation. Healthy sevens are emotionally resilient and adaptable. Sevens can struggle with commitment due to fear of loss. They often distract themselves from pain instead of facing it. Unhealthy sevens may numb their feelings and avoid conflict. Sevens can feel chronically dissatisfied when unhealthy. Practicing presence and emotional awareness is crucial for growth. Partners of sevens should encourage follow-through and safety in conversations. At their best, sevens remind us why life is worth

In this episode, Dave Glaser explores the Enneagram type 6, highlighting their loyalty, courage, and commitment in relationships. He discusses the challenges they face, particularly when operating from fear and anxiety, and how these can sabotage their connections. The conversation also delves into the darker aspects of type 6 behavior, including distrust and self-sabotage. Finally, practical relationship advice is offered for both Enneagram 6s and those in relationships with them, emphasizing the importance of trust and emotional safety. Takeaways Sixes bring unshakable loyalty and commitment. They make the world safer for their loved ones. When struggling, sixes operate from fear and anxiety. Small conflicts can escalate into larger issues for sixes. Sixes often test relationships for reassurance. They may struggle with trusting their own judgment. At their worst, sixes can become paranoid and distrustful. Fear can distort their perception of safety in relationships. Grounding techniques can help sixes mana

In this episode of the Challenger Podcast, host Dave Glaser explores the complexities of Enneagram Type 5, known as the Investigator. He discusses their strengths, challenges, and how they navigate relationships. The conversation delves into the good, the bad, and the ugly aspects of being a Type 5, emphasizing their need for space, their intellectual depth, and the importance of understanding their emotional landscape. Glaser also provides insights on how Type 5s can grow and engage more fully in their lives while maintaining their unique qualities. Takeaways Type 5s are known as the investigators, driven by a desire for knowledge. They bring depth of thought and problem-solving skills to any situation. Fives respect boundaries and provide space for others. In relationships, fives may withdraw when overwhelmed, not out of disinterest but to protect their energy. Fives can struggle with emotional expression, often analyzing rather than feeling. When unhealthy, fives may become isolated and paranoid, retreatin

In this conversation, Devon Neisen joins Dave and explores the complexities of the Enneagram Four personality type, focusing on themes of perceived brokenness and the quest for self-worth through uniqueness. The discussion delves into how these beliefs shape emotional health and relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's intrinsic value beyond societal expectations. Takeaways Enneagram Fours often feel inherently broken. The belief of being broken can stem from childhood experiences. Uniqueness is seen as a way to fill the void of self-worth. Parental communication plays a crucial role in shaping self-perception. Feeling unique can lead to a sense of worthiness. The journey of self-acceptance is vital for emotional health. Understanding the Enneagram can aid in personal growth. Self-worth is not contingent on external validation. Emotional health is intertwined with personality understanding. The Enneagram offers insights into relational dynamics. If Devon's message resonated with you, p

In this episode of the Challenger Podcast, host Dave Glaser explores the Enneagram Type Three, known as the Achiever. He discusses the strengths and challenges of Type Threes in relationships, emphasizing their motivation, charm, and goal-oriented nature. However, he also highlights their struggles with vulnerability, emotional presence, and the tendency to prioritize achievement over intimacy. The conversation concludes with insights on how Type Threes can grow by embracing authenticity and redefining success in love. Takeaways Type 3s are driven, confident, and inspiring individuals. They bring energy and ambition into their relationships. Type 3s set goals for their relationships and work hard to achieve them. They can struggle with emotional presence and vulnerability. Type 3s may prioritize work over love, leading to emotional distance. At their worst, they can become manipulative or deceptive. Their relationships can feel transactional rather than genuine. Growth for Type 3s involves embracing authentic

In this episode of The Challenger Podcast, Dave dives deep into the Enneagram Type 1 — also known as The Reformer or The Perfectionist. We explore how Type 1s show up in life and especially in relationships through the lens of the good, the bad, and the ugly. ✨ The Good: Integrity, responsibility, and being a dependable partner.

The Enneagram 9, often called The Peacemaker, is known for their calm, grounded, and accepting nature. But what does this really look like in a relationship — when it’s healthy, when it’s struggling, and when it turns downright messy? In this episode, we dive deep into the good, the bad, and the ugly sides of the Enneagram 9 in relationships. You’ll discover: The gifts a 9 brings into love — peace, empathy, and loyalty The struggles they face — indecision, conflict avoidance, and complacency The ugly shadow — passive-aggression, emotional withdrawal, and explosive anger when pushed too far If you or your partner identify as an Enneagram 9, this episode will help you understand how to nurture connection, navigate challenges, and avoid the traps that lead to disconnection. Whether you’re an Enneagram enthusiast, in a relationship with a 9, or exploring your own patterns, this conversation will give you practical insight into building healthier, more intentional love. Why Enneagram 9s bring calm and harmony in

This episode explores how the Enneagram 8 shows up in relationships; the good, the bad and the ugly with real life examples from remodeling a bathroom to fostering a dog... all in the same week! As a follow up to last week's episode, host Dave Glaser invites The Challenger to look inward for answers and growth to enrich the relationships in your life. Don't know your type? Click 9types.com and take the Rheti version, screenshot your results and email them to me at riseup@fitlifechampions.com If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand. A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world. Join me each week in one of our small group classes to understand better how you c

As an Enneagram 8 father, you're wired for strength, protection, and relentless loyalty to your family. But what happens when that loyalty causes you to neglect your own needs? In this episode, we explore the powerful—but often invisible—pattern of the self-sacrificing 8 dad. You’ll discover why putting yourself last can actually make you less present and connected—and how shifting toward self-care, boundaries, health, and discipline can completely change the way you show up as a father. We’ll cover: The myth that strength means pushing through Why routines and exercise ground the 8’s intensity How healthy boundaries model emotional safety for your kids Practical self-care tools that sharpen your leadership at home This is your reminder: caring for yourself is not weakness—it’s the foundation of sustainable fatherhood.